Otherkin said:
I don't particularly want there to be a multiverse.
Well, the universe doesn't much care what you or I or anybody else wants.
Three points:
1. The universe is big, much bigger than what we can observe. It is very likely absurdly, unbelievably larger. We know it has to be much bigger than the part of it we can observe because the universe we observe is very, very uniform: if the universe weren't much bigger than what we can see, then we should see some sort of change in the universe as it approaches this boundary. But we don't, so we expect it must be vastly larger.
2. Our understanding of high-energy physics indicates that at least part of the laws of physics which we are familiar with isn't fundamental, but was rather determined at random early in our region of the universe. If this is the case, which seems very likely today (and is something which the LHC may provide further insights into), then it stands to reason that regions of the universe far away from our own will have different laws of physics in operation at low energies.
Note that in this scenario everything would still be based upon the same underlying laws of physics. But the behavior of objects at low energies (such as we experience) would be very, very different, due to these different events in these regions' pasts.
3. I see no reason to expect that the laws of the universe should be such that life
must be possible. So it is philosophically appealing, to me, that the universe is big and variable and mostly devoid of life. We know this is true within our own universe. It seems natural to expect that this is also likely the case between widely-disconnected regions of the universe as well: some parts will be capable of supporting life. Most won't. Unfortunately this particular argument is very weak, much weaker than the above two, because we don't actually know what laws of physics are possible, let alone their relative probabilities, so we can't actually say with any certainty exactly how likely life is.
Otherkin said:
And would every single possibility be actually occurring in some universe out there? Like, in one universe am I being cut into bits from the toes up without anaesthetic and then having my body regenerated by some piece of advanced technology and then being cut up again OVER AND OVER FOREVER? All the while having faeces smeared in my face?
This is a somewhat different idea, that of the many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics, an interpretation that is almost certainly accurate. However, it appears you are misunderstanding its implications somewhat. The many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics does not say, "anything and everything happens," it rather says, "lots of stuff happens." That's a big difference. First, the impossible never happens. It isn't necessarily the case that everything we can imagine actually turns out to be possible. Second, the many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics is a fully-deterministic theory: everything is a component of the same wavefunction that is just evolving through time.
The world we observe is one component of said wave function, and there are other components that represent other worlds, some similar, some very different. It is difficult to say a priori what is or is not happening in those other worlds, so we can't say, for instance, whether or not there's a world out there where it turns out that I am having sex multiple times a day every day and loving every minute of it. That's certainly not my life in this world. And even if there is a world out there where something like that is happening, would that person's life be so different from mine that they could even count as being "me" at all?