Noah332 said:
If you slow down time do atoms hold there heat relative to you? If you are standing next to a boiling pot of water and you somehow stopped time, if you touched the boiling water would it feel hot?
You can't stop time, so the question is not answerable.
As for temperature being relative, well, it's not. It's a measure of the internal energy of a system (such as a collection of gas particles). This internal energy does not change if you or the system is accelerated since the kinetic energy of the system is not part of the internal energy. The fact that objects can be at different temperatures does not mean that temperature is relative, it only means that there isn't a single temperature that an object can have. (using 'relative' in the context it is used in SR and GR)
For something to be relative, it requires that there be no discernible difference in the laws of physics at the different values that something can take. For example, no matter how much you accelerate an object, no experiment you can do on that object from its reference frame will tell you how fast you are going. You
must reference an outside object. And, depending on what that outside object is doing, you can very easily measure different values for your velocity.
Temperature is not like this. There is absolutely a difference as you heat up an object, and all observers, no matter how they are moving or what their own temperature is, will agree on what will happen. For example, all observers will see water boil and evaporate as it is heated up to and beyond its boiling point. The person who put the kettle on the stove doesn't need to reference another kettle nearby and compare it their own kettle to know the temperature increased. He can simply observe what happens to the water in the kettle.
Another example of a non-relative effect is acceleration. You can very easily measure the acceleration using an accelerometer. You don't need to look to another object and compare what it's doing to what your doing. No matter how other objects are moving and accelerating,
all would agree that you are accelerating, they would agree on the magnitude of the acceleration, and they would agree on the direction of the acceleration.