selfAdjoint said:
But we don't use it for a person, and English really doesn't have a universally accepted gender-neutral personal pronoun.
I was just thinking about this recently. I use singular
they and don't really have a problem with it in the situations where it works. But I would certiainly try using a new word if I could find one that actually worked.
By the bye, those two, singular
they or a new word, are the only options that I currently have. Generic
he doesn't work. I think there have been studies about the interpretation of generic
he if anyone wants to look. For one thing, in
(1) The pilot left a note saying he would call tomorrow.
how are you to know whether
he was intended to be gender-specific or gender-neutral? Is the pilot male or female? There's no way of knowing. I imagine that that doesn't stop most speakers from assuming that the person is male, though. (I imagine the same would happen for every other profession. For professions that are automatically associated with males, the use of
he doesn't interfere with the assumption and perhaps even encourages it, and for other professions, the use of
he interferes with the female association -- and in the case of stereotypically female professions, it signals to me, at first, that the sex is in fact known and male, but perhaps that's because I'm used to
they. Consider
the nurse left a note saying he would call tomorrow. Heck, consider
the stewardess left a note saying he would call tomorrow.
He and
-ess contradict each other, but if you assume it's a goof, does
-ess ever win? Hah, interesting. Anywho...) I've been referred to with
he plenty of times and am never sure whether to correct the person since I don't know whether they think that I'm male or are just using
he generically. Using
she generically and switching between
he and
she have the same problems.
Personally, I'd like to see generic
he fall out of use. At best, it's annoying, and at worst, it makes bad situations worse and leaves the door open for all kinds of
stupidity.
I find
s/he, he or she, and similar options ugly and long, and some don't even work in speech at all.
I don't like
one either. It doesn't work for me in informal contexts, and I don't even like it in formal writing either.
You can find lists of proposed pronouns http://www.aetherlumina.com/gnp/ . None of the ones I've seen yet would work. It just occurred to me that bringing back
thou(/thee/thy/thine/thyself) might be an option -- at least we know that they already work as a set of English pronouns!

I don't know, just something to toss around.