Learning Java programming can be approached without delving deeply into UML (Unified Modeling Language), as it is not essential for understanding Java. Many participants in the discussion suggest that beginners can focus on practical programming rather than theoretical concepts like UML, especially if it feels complicated. There is a debate about whether to start with C or C++ before Java, with some arguing that starting with a procedural language like C can provide a solid foundation for understanding programming concepts before tackling object-oriented programming (OOP) in Java. Others advocate for learning OOP concepts early to avoid complacency with procedural programming. The consensus is that while C++ is more complex than Java, it may offer valuable insights into programming fundamentals. Ultimately, the choice of starting language depends on personal preference and learning style, with some recommending Python as an alternative for beginners.