Mike S. said:
I don't have the full calculation at hand, but if it's meaningless to say that an object hovers at a distance D from an event horizon, and wrong to assume that just because horizon passes an object at the speed of light, the object passes the horizon at the speed of light, I should check to see if this math is also irrelevant.
According to
https://cosmo.nyu.edu/yacine/teaching/GR_2019/lectures/lecture22.pdf , for light
dr/dt = -(1-2M/r)
t = ± [r + 2M ln(r/2M − 1)] + constant
And according to
https://www.physicsforums.com/insights/schwarzschild-geometry-part-1/ (Peter Donis), for matter at rest
dr/dt = -(1-2M/r) sqrt(2M/r)
Now, I ought to remember how to get that second differential equation sorted out quickly, but I'm afraid it's been a while. Is this going to yield an accepted result where the calculated difference in t actually has something to do with the elapsed time at the statite or anywhere else in the universe?
Using Schwarzschild coordinates, it's possible to prove that we can wait only a maximum finite time to send light after an infalling object in order for the light to overtake the object before the event horizon.
Starting from rest at initial radius ##r = R##, we can generate the equation for the infalling object:
$$\frac{dr}{dt} = -\frac{1}{\sqrt{1 - \frac{2M}{R}}}\big ( 1 - \frac{2M}{r} \big ) \sqrt{\frac{2M}{r} - \frac{2M}{R}}$$This can be integrated to give:
$$t = 2M\ln\bigg (\frac{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} + \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}}{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} - \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}} \bigg ) + F(r)$$Where ##F(r)## is some additional finite function of ##r##. I.e. finite as ##r \to 2M##.
Then, we have the relatioship between ##r## and ##T##, which is the coordinate time of a inbound light pulse stating from ##r = R##:
$$T = -2M\ln\big (\frac{r}{2M} - 1\big ) - r + T_0$$Now, we for a given ##r##, we can calculate the difference between the time, ##t##, it takes the infalling object to reach ##r## and the time it takes a light pulse. This is:
$$t - T = 2M\ln\bigg (\frac{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} + \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}}{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} - \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}} \bigg ) + F(r) + 2M\ln\big (\frac{r}{2M} - 1\big ) +r - T_0$$What we need to show is that tends to some finite limit as ##r \to 2M##. Everything is finite, except possibly the combined log term:
$$\ln\bigg (\frac{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} + \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}}{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} - \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}} \bigg ) + \ln\big (\frac{r}{2M} - 1\big )$$To see that this is finite, we re-express the term inside the first log as:
$$\frac{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} + \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}}{\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}} - \sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}} = \frac{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{2r}{R} + 1 + 2\sqrt{\frac{r}{2M} -\frac{r}{R}}\sqrt{1 - \frac{r}{R}}}{\frac{r}{2M} -1} $$And, when we combine the logs the denominator will cancel with the second log term, leaving a finite limit as ##r \rightarrow 2M##.
In other words, the difference in time between a light pulse and an infalling object tends to some finite limit as ##r \to 2M##, Which means that we have a finite time we can wait before sending a light signal that will reach the object before it gets to the event horizon.