Men: How Would You React to Being Contacted Out of the Blue?

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The discussion centers around the reactions of individuals when contacted unexpectedly by a woman expressing admiration for them. Initial responses include feelings of flattery mixed with suspicion, particularly regarding how the woman obtained their email address. Public figures note they often receive such messages, which can feel overwhelming or even creepy, depending on the approach and content of the email. Many participants agree that the context and tone of the message significantly influence their reactions; a well-crafted email referencing shared interests or work is more likely to be welcomed than a vague compliment. Some express that if they were single, they might be more open to engaging, while others emphasize discomfort, especially if the message is overly focused on physical attraction. The conversation also touches on the challenges of online communication, where initial impressions can be easily misinterpreted. Ultimately, there is a consensus that while such outreach can be flattering, it often requires careful consideration of how to approach the recipient to avoid coming off as strange or overly forward.

How would you feel about a woman e-mailing you with no prior contact?

  • She must be crazy

    Votes: 10 18.5%
  • I would be flattered

    Votes: 21 38.9%
  • Depends on what she looks like

    Votes: 11 20.4%
  • Depends on her personality

    Votes: 12 22.2%

  • Total voters
    54
  • #251
Is this what sparked your interest, Evo?:

David Deutsch at the University of Oxford and colleagues have shown that key equations of quantum mechanics arise from the mathematics of parallel universes. "This work will go down as one of the most important developments in the history of science," says Andy Albrecht, a physicist at the University of California at Davis.

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  • #252
You do understand, Evo, that if you do contact him, and he gets to know you, this whole thread will be wide-open? I have saved a copy for future leverage, in case it is necessary.:devil::biggrin:
 
  • #253
A local company could sponsor a colloquium in Quantum Computing at the local university in conjunction with the mathematics, physics and chemistry departments and perhaps other universities in the area. Invite DD as the keynote speaker. Then interested parties could meet DD.

This guy would be interested -
http://wavelet.chem.ku.edu/sichu/index.php
 
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  • #254
Astronuc said:
A local company could sponsor a colloquium in Quantum Computing at the local university in conjunction with the mathematics, physics and chemistry departments and perhaps other universities in the area. Invite DD as the keynote speaker. Then interested parties could met DD.

This guy would be interested -
http://wavelet.chem.ku.edu/sichu/index.php
Ooh, man! You're as devious and clever as the best of them. Could politics be in your future? I hope that you will not align yourself with the dark side of the force... the Emperor and Darth Vader (R&C) need no more help. :smile:
 
  • #255
turbo-1 said:
Ooh, man! You're as devious and clever as the best of them. Could politics be in your future? I hope that you will not align yourself with the dark side of the force... the Emperor and Darth Vader (R&C) need no more help. :smile:
I'm just practical.

I'm not sure about politics. I don't like wearing suits, and I prefer to go barefoot.

On the other hand, I like rolling up my sleeves and getting things done. Then again, I prefer shirts without sleeves. :biggrin:

If one includes a picture with the email, one with a smile would be nice.
https://www.physicsforums.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=11060&d=1191170404
 
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  • #256
Astronuc said:
I'm just practical.

I'm not sure about politics. I don't like wearing suits, and I prefer to go barefoot.

On the other hand, I like rolling up my sleeves and get things done. Then again, I prefer shirts without sleeves. :biggrin:
I hear you. I wear shoes mainly because I do stuff that can cause cuts/damage to my feet. I don't own a suit, a sports coat, or a tie. There's no possibility that I will ever go anywhere that these are required, so I practically live in T-shirts, jeans, and the occasional flannel/fleece shirt when it's really cold outside. When I was running open-mike jams at local taverns, much of my clothing costs were taken care of, because beer vendors would ask to run specials at the jams and provide me with free T-shirts, sweatshirts, etc. :biggrin:
 
  • #257
I would certainly wear a suit (with shoes) for any member of the PF sisterhood - but that is about the only time. :smile:
 
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Astronuc said:
I would certainly wear a suit (with shoes) for any member of the PF sisterhood - but that is about the only time. :smile:
I can't imagine any time that you might need to dress up for the sisters, unless you needed to crash a wedding (reason unspecified). :smile: I think most of the sisters would accept us as we are, absent the need for the undercover work. Certainly, MIH, Moonie, Evo, and Tsu might be willing to overlook our lack of social sophistication in return for some salsas or chili relishes. You've got to haul some of your frozen chilies out of the freezer and experiment with them. The heat will set you free!
 
  • #259
J77 said:
Scariest comment on this thread -- in a "umm... yeah"... slowly backs away from poster... way

:-p
lol what are you looking at me for?! I'm just telling you what passes for common knowledge & common usage on facebook. (though you probably won't hear it quite like that)
 
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rewebster said:
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rewebster said:
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Thats the worst attempt at morse code I've ever seen. :-p If you want to ask Evo if she sent her e-mail then just spit it out. :smile:
 
  • #265
No, I will probably never e-mail him.
 
  • #266
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  • #267
rewebster said:
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  • #268
Evo said:
No, I will probably never e-mail him.

I think you should send him a singing telegram. If you'll fly me there, I'll deliver the musical message in a bear suit and tap shoes.
 
  • #269
Math Is Hard said:
I think you should send him a singing telegram. If you'll fly me there, I'll deliver the musical message in a bear suit and tap shoes.
Would you? I think that is my answer! I'll even bail you out of jail when the police pick you up. :smile:

Maybe some clever lyrics...

"She may be cute, but she can't compute - that's Evo."

Common, I know you science guys can come up with some lyrics.

It should be something toe-tapping, with maybe an accordian.

Oh, and maybe mention that I can make a knife and spear head out of a harmonica.
 
  • #272
Math Is Hard said:
That was incredible. :smile:
:frown: I can't watch it.
 
  • #275
Mih, -- --!
 
  • #276
rewebster said:
Mih, -- --!
Hey, don't start sending messages to MIH.

kurdt, that was great, I was finally able to watch it.
 
  • #277
Math Is Hard said:
I think you should send him a singing telegram. If you'll fly me there, I'll deliver the musical message in a bear suit and tap shoes.
If you're in your bare suit with tap shoes that might spoil Evo's chances. :smile:
 
  • #278
turbo-1 said:
If you're in your bare suit with tap shoes that might spoil Evo's chances. :smile:

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