Up to nowadays knowledge, the Leptonic number seems to be conserved ...that's why you need the antineutrino. The deal, at least mathematically, is that you have a symmetry in the standard model which corresponds to that lepton number conservation. There are also some propositions for Leptonic and Baryonic numbers being violated (not conserved), but instead they keep the conservation of their difference... (one such interaction is the proton decay in some GUTs). The symmetries then U(1)_{L} and U(1)_{B} would be broken -I think this can be done through an anomaly- while symmetries like U(1)_{B-L} survive.
Of course when physicist first came across the beta decay they didn't know anything about leptonic numbers etc, they didn't know that the neutrino existed. But the problem was that they got the spectra of the electrons' energies, and they found it that it wasn't a 2 body decay (In two body decay spectra you see 1 peak at a single value of energy). On the other hand, what they saw was a continuum spectrum...
In order to save energy conservation, Pauli introduced a really funny particle to save the day (one that of course is emitted to get the energy needed, but it doesn't interact with others)... 2 decades I think later, the neutrino was finally detected.
(of course physics answers to some "why" questions, answers to "why nature works this way". It's not only observation, otherwise we wouldn't need the confinement problem -we'd say quarks are just staying in there because that's what we see-, we wouldn't need the hierarchy problem-we'd say EW scale is such because that's what we see- and we wouldn't need the strong CP problem-we'd say Θ is so small because that's what we see... Hope you get what I'm trying to say

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But may I ask something about weak decays going backward? For the case where CP symmetry is violated, we also need the T symmetry to be violated...In that case does that mean that the opposite interaction does not occur/is highly supressed?