I agree that it may be meaningless to talk about a photon's frame of reference from a mathematical point of view, as 'Frames of Reference are used for a specific purpose in relativity.
But I don't see why it is meaningless to discuss what happens to photon from creation to absorption. This is after all, a real situation. Particularly if it helps the OP grasp a concept. Even Einstein imagined traveling along side a light beam, which we know is meaningless, but it certainly helped him.
So why is it that it is not valid to talk about what happens to a photon from the time we create one to the time we would observe it being absorbed?
So maybe another way of asking the OP’s question might be this.
If I switch my torch on and point it to a particular area of the sky, is it possible that in 10 billion years or so, assuming we are still around, that someone may detect that photon.
If so, then in 100 years time, if my grandson repeats our family tradition of shining bright torches in a particular direction in the sky, is it possible that the same device that detected my photon, could detect my grandson’s photon simultaneously, from their frame of reference?