kolleamm said:
It's more about me learning what to say next time such a conversation comes up. Nothing I hate more than accepting scientific theories and not knowing how to justify my opinion when someone says otherwise.
Unless you are an expert in all the numerous fields, and unless you are willing to put time and effort into learning each one of them, at some point, ALL of us have to accept the opinion of experts. I'm a physicist, but I trust my GI specialist when he tells me during my colonoscopy that there are two small polyps removed and that they are benign. (OK, that may have been too graphic, but you get the idea).
The thing about established physics is that, chances are, you ARE using the basic principle in your everyday lives, whether you realize it or not. The speed of light in vacuum is CRUCIAL in your GPS. If we make a small mistake, even a little, the GPS system will be out of whack so quickly, you'll find Chicago located in London! And if your "friend" doesn't think that light can be an EM wave, then he/she needs to visit a particle accelerator where we use RF fields to accelerate charge particles. Or better yet, get him/her to set up an antenna and measure what he/she gets of radio waves.
The thing here is that it take NO effort and no knowledge to simply just say "Oh, I don't believe in that!". One must also produce (i) physics evidence (i.e. experimental evidence), and then (ii) apply a theory to interpret that evidence to support one's belief. This is how science works in either disproving something, or advancing our knowledge. In other words, we don't just say "everything that goes up, must come down. We must also say "when and where it comes down". That, in essence, is physics.
So, if you are intent on dealing with something like this in the future, pay attention to how the argument is made. Did the person simply indicate that he/she doesn't believe in something without justification? Or did that person offers a rational, reasonable argument? Then if it is counter to the established concept, ask him/her for an explanation on how he/she thinks that he/she is correct, while experts in the field is wrong.
Zz.