cam875 said:
so does quantum mechanics state that all particles can be represented by waves and that it is needed to do so in order to describe some of the crazy things observed at the atomic and subatomic level.
Wave-particle duality is... well it's helpful at the start, but becomes confusing if you don't get what it's there for.
In ye olde dayse of physics, somewhere around the turn of the 20th century, physics was founded upon Newton's mechanics, (which had the abstract idea of particle) and maxwell's electromagnetism (which had the abstract idea of wave/field). So in order to classify a system, the entities in the system had to be either particles (like billiard balls) or waves... So when things like electromagnetic radiation began to behave like particles (photoelectric effect) and vice versa, it confused the hell out of the folk back then. Hence this wave particle duality.
They concluded that the theory of the time was wrong. Neither Newtonian mechanics nor maxwell's equations could be correct. So they decided to create a physical description based solely upon what was observable. Thus the new theory contained neither waves nor particles. But it did give the right results. Which was the most important thing. I prefer to think of electrons and protons and all the other "elementary particles" as particles. This was Feynman's approach. When they are detected, they are completely detected. You never find half an electron or a third of an up quark. However, these particles are said to be in certain physical states.
There are two main representations of these states: the schroedinger picture, in which the states are represented as wave functions; the Heisenberg picture in which the states are vectors in a mathematical Hilbert space. In the schroedinger picture, it just so happens that the square of the amplitude of the wave function (cause they can be complex) is the same as the probability density function for finding the particle at a given point.
I hope this has cleared things up rather than made it more confused. Essentially, wave-particle duality is an old notion, based on the fact that everything is either a wave or a particle. In actuality, everything is described acurately by QM and thus these abstract notions of waves and particles are largely unnecessary. As Feynman said "shut up and calculate".