The example is not correct. According to both person A and person B, the light is switched on at the same time, since the people have no relative motion.
You only need to worry about the relativity of simultaneity when objects are moving at a significant fraction of the speed of light. Two good examples are particles and satellites.
So you are right in thinking relativity of simultaneity doesn't matter in 'every day life'. If we consider only the reference frames of people, then simultaneity is approximately absolute, because all people have very small relative speeds (as a fraction of c). So if two events on Earth are simultaneous according to me, then they are approximately simultaneous according to everyone else on earth.
Nitsuj is right that simultaneity is always relative, its just that we don't notice it in every day life because the effects are tiny compared to the precision our measuring equipment.
Edit: of course, robphy's link seems to show some measuring equipment that is precise enough. So it takes very precise equipment to show that absolute relativity is only an approximation.