I think it would be absurd to use the term "relative velocity" for the time derivative of the difference between the position coordinates of the two objects. When we say that a person walking inside a train has the velocity 5 m/s relative to the train, we mean that his velocity is 5 m/s in the inertial frame in which the train is stationary. To have "relative velocity of" mean something completely different than "velocity relative to" would only make sense if we wanted to cause as much confusion as possible.It's
too basic. That's the problem with it. No one knows relativity in 9th grade, so no need to distinguish between "my speed relative to the train is 5 m/s" and "the difference between my speed and the train's speed, both relative to the ground, is 5 m/s".It's not physics at all. It's just semantics. We're just talking about what the term "relative velocity" means, and what it should mean.I did, and as Matheinsteine already said, Rindler
doesn't define relative velocity this way. The exact quote is:
"We call this, for lack of a better name, the mutual velocity between the particles in S, to distinguish it from the relative velocity, which is what one particle ascribes to the other."
Do you seriously think that we believe that it does, or is this just an insult?You are incorrectly assuming that your interpretation of "relative velocity" is correct and all others wrong.