I think that the allure of this problem is based on the tendency of people to draw an incorrect inference from a very familiar observation as they lead themselves down the garden path.
Let me explain. Assume that a person is shown what is presented below and asked questions about it.
The observation
A scale hanging from the ceiling with nothing in its tray reads zero.
When 6 lbs of bananas are placed in the tray, the scale reads 6 lbs.
This works the same way with any goods of any weight in the tray. (I will stick with bananas because I like them.)
What the person will say if asked
The weight of bananas on the tray is the reading on the scale. This weight is a force in the direction away from the scale (down) and acts on the "banana side" of the scale.
What the person will take away from all this
Bananas in the tray cause a reading in the scale. No bananas in the tray cause no reading in the scale.
This is correct but incomplete. At this point it is necessary to acknowledge the importance of the tension in the upper string that attaches the scale to the ceiling. It has to be there regardless of whether the scale reads zero or not
because the scale does not accelerate.
Asking at this point "Does the tension in the upper string contribute to the reading? Why or why not?" will probably prevent the person from falling into the trap associated with this problem.
Springing the trap
Now you present the person with the double-banana assembly as shown on the right and you pop the question What does the scale read?
The person will most likely say 12 lbs and if you ask why, the response would be something like "We have seen that bananas in the tray cause a reading in the scale. No bananas in the tray cause no reading in the scale. Since we now have two bunches of bananas pulling on each side of the spring scale, it follows that the reading should be twice as much."
This response is based on the faulty conclusion that the force at each end of the scale contributes to the reading of the scale independently of what what force acts at the other end. Of course, if that were true the spring scale would accelerate. For that reason the forces must be equal and opposite and that is why it is important to ask about the contribution of the upper string to the reading of the scale.