Zan24C said:
it's not the subject of this thread and I would like to stop talking about it now.
Fair enough, but you should be aware that we have no experimental evidence that extremely small probabilities like 1 / googol have any physical meaning. It is one thing to say that non-relativistic quantum mechanics mathematically includes such probabilities (and even there the "non-relativistic" is key--as has already been pointed out, when you include relativity you are using quantum field theory, which works differently); it is quite another to insist that such probabilities are real. You can open a new thread in the QM forum if you want to ask about the limitations of this viewpoint.
Zan24C said:
I truly appreciate that you took time to reply to this thread and are trying to help me.
Thanks for the appreciation. I understand that this is a difficult topic, and what GR says in this case is very counterintuitive. I'll limit my response to your previous posts to pointing out a few specific statements that seem to me to pinpoint where the counterintuitiveness is concentrated, so to speak.
Zan24C said:
Ignore the reference frame of the observer. AGAIN.
There is a very important point to be made here, which I think is made in the Insights series but perhaps I need to go back and stress it more. Every observer's "reference frame", strictly speaking, is local. In other words, every observer can construct a "reference frame" that describes events in his local vicinity. And in his local vicinity, he has a valid argument for treating the description of his observations in terms of his local reference frame as "real".
But any attempt to extend that beyond the local vicinity of that observer no longer can be justified by such an argument in the general case. In flat spacetime, there happens to be a set of reference frames--the inertial frames--that can be so justified; but that is a particular feature of flat spacetime and inertial frames and cannot be extended beyond that. For example, even in flat spacetime, non-inertial frames will not, in general, cover the entire spacetime. (Rindler coordinates, for example, which are the natural "reference frame" for an observer with uniform proper acceleration, have a horizon that has a number of similarities with the event horizon in Schwarzschild spacetime.) And in curved spacetime, even inertial frames (i.e., frames in which an object at rest is in free fall--note that Schwarzschild coordinates are
not such a frame, btw) are only local and cannot cover an extended region of spacetime, let alone the entire spacetime.
So when you say that "the reference frame of the distant observer says the falling observer never crosses the horizon", you are trying to extrapolate the distant observer's frame beyond the region where it is valid. You simply can't treat that reference frame, or any reference frame, in curved spacetime the way you treat an inertial frame in flat spacetime. This goes for the falling observer's frame too, btw: strictly speaking, the falling observer's frame, in which it is simple to show that he reaches the horizon in finite time, only covers his local region and cannot be extrapolated to cover the distant observer. So he can't assume, for example, that the coordinate time in his reference frame (which is basically Painleve coordinates) will be meaningful in the distant observer's vicinity.
The upshot of all this is that there is
no "reference frame" that you can use to describe the entire geometry of a curved spacetime like Schwarzschild spacetime. The
only way to do it is to use coordinate charts, which in general will
not correspond everywhere to any observer's "reference frame". And there is no single chart that can represent the entire geometry without distortion, so coordinate charts have limitations too if you're trying to visualize what's going on. We don't have to confront this in everyday life because we are used to limited domains, like the vicinity of the Earth, in which we can find single "reference frames" or coordinate charts that cover everything we are interested in. But that's because we live our everyday lives in a limited domain, not because it's always possible.
Ultimately, the physics comes down to invariants--quantities that do not depend on your choice of reference frames or coordinate charts. When I say that the falling observer reaches the horizon in finite time, that is an invariant: the invariant length of a particular timelike curve in the spacetime geometry. It's no different from saying that the great circle distance from New York to London is an invariant on the Earth's surface, and doesn't depend on whether you use spherical coordiates, Mercator coordinates, or stereographic coordinates, or even if you choose a reference frame or coordinates that include New York but don't include London. London is there in the geometry whether your coordinates include it or not; you can compute geometric invariants that show that. Similarly, the horizon and the region inside it are there in the Schwarzschild geometry, whether your coordinates include it or not; you can compute geometric invariants that show that.
Zan24C said:
Because you are now factoring in a change in reference frame from local to global, where there is a change in spacetime curvature.
No, I'm not. The signal delay is an invariant, as I said. Invariants are independent of any choice of reference frame or coordinates. See above.
Also, the spacetime curvature is itself an invariant: it also doesn't depend on your choice of reference frame or coordinates. So saying that changing reference frames changes the spacetime curvature is wrong.
Zan24C said:
If the person traveling around the world took an infinite amount of time from the perspective of the person
going south on the interstate - which is the more appropriate analogy by the way
No, it isn't. In your thought experiment about an observer going down close to the horizon, staying there for a while, then coming back up to the distant observer, both of their elapsed times are finite.
If, OTOH, the falling observer actually reaches the horizon, then he can never get back out to the distant observer again, so there is no way for them to compare clock readings. And since both of their reference frames are local (see above), neither one can extrapolate his own clock readings to the other. In other words, there is no way to make the comparison you are trying to make unless the two observers can come back together, and if the falling observer reaches the horizon, they can't.