jbriggs444 said:
This is unclear. What cannot be equal to what? And what is "proper rest".
Certainly two observers can each maintain that they are at rest and that their peer is not.
Proper rest is a state, when you consider yourself as being at rest and interpret observations from the point of view observer at rest. Imagine that you stay at certain point at axis y, at point Y. You posses a long thin tube. You ascribe yourself a state of proper rest. You want to measure frequency of moving source - green monochromatic lamp. You turn the tube into the origin. You stay and wait. The lamp moves along x in negative direction. At certain moment you see a short flash, when the lamp passes the origin and a photon goes through you tube. The flash will be red in color due to Transverse Doppler Effect.
Then you ascribe yourself small velocity. You repeat the experiment but do nothing special in this case - just turn the tube a bit into front. Why? Because if photon flies along y-axis up, you approach the point of "intersection from the left" and you have to take aberration into account. You tilt tube so as the photon would be able to pass through it. You see a flash again. The photon will be a bit less red, than it was in the first experiment.
Then you repeat the experiment again, but ascribe yourself even larger proper velocity. You think that since your velocity increased, you tilt you tube even further an see that color of photon moved into blue range of spectrum.
In fact you do nothing, just turn you tube further an further into front and interpret every observation as transverse doppler effect, since photon according to you comes to you along y-axis and due aberration becomes more and more blue with each experiment.
So, ascribing yourself state of proper motion means that you simply turn your tube or gaze further and further into front.
If lamp emits dispersed light, you will always see it. But if the source emits narrow beam, the source will always have to adjust angle of emission at corresponding angle, so as the photon will go through your tube,
These angles are always tied with relativistic aberration formula. The more you tilt you tube into front, the less the source has to tilt his laser pointer back. At the moment, when these angles are the same, you will see no shift, neither dilation nor acceleration, because the source and you ascribe themselves equal velocities.
So, state of proper motion means, that you look into front but not straight down