I can't believe I'm about to say this, but here goes. Sometimes the scientific method doesn't work. Especially when emotions are involved. THE GIRL IS HAPPY!!!! The guy said some stupid stuff to his friends. That's all. It's not a big deal.You're getting carried away, Trib. Things like that have neither been said nor intended. let's try and see it objectively, perhaps almost like the scientific method. Decisions should be based on sound data and information. If that information is withheld, sound decisions can't be made. And afterwards there is the mess to clean up.
I can probably find 100 posts I'm made on here where I ranted about how my girlfriend did something that made me mad, or made me laugh. that doesn't mean I want you to call her and read them off to her. People, especially young, immature boys, say things to their friends. Lots of times they say jerky things because they think it makes them look cool. tell him if he's being jerky, don't narc him off. If you've never said anything behind someone's back that you'd prefer they didn't know about then I'll stop arguing right now and start worshiping you immediately.