ash64449 said:
hey,, that means...
An hour is closer to me than a minute?!
No. Consider three events ("event" is just another word for "point in space-time"):
1) You clap you hands right now. When you do, your wristwatch reads exactly noon. Call this event N.
2) You clap you hands again. This time your wristwatch reads 12:01. Call this event M.
3) You clap your hands a third time. This time your wristwatch reads 13:00. Call this event H.
Assume that you're just sitting still, no acceleration or other change of speed, for the entire hour. It might be best to assume that you're floating in empty space, so we don't have to worry about gravity, the rotation of the Earth, and the like.
Now N, M, and H all lie on the same straight line; M lies between N and H; and as you travel through space-time you are moving along that line, starting at point N, passing through M, and then reaching H.
Clearly M is closer to you than H because you had to pass through M to get to H on a straight-line path. Your path from N to M is one minute long, your path from M to H is 59 minutes long, and your path from N to H through M is one hour long.
However, there are paths through space-time from N to H that don't pass through M. Your path does, because all three events are you clapping your hands, so they're always going to happen where you are.
But consider a spaceship that starts out sitting right next to you, takes off when you clap your hands for the first time, flies for a while, turns around, and returns just in time to land and be sitting next to you when you clap your hands for the third time.
The spaceship's path through spacetime passes through N and H but not through M. It's also not a straight line.
DaleSpam is saying that the spaceship's path between N and H will be shorter than your path between N and H - not too surprising because they are different paths. That has nothing to do with the event M which is on your path but not the spaceship's. Your path from N to M is one minute long, your path from M to H is 59 minutes long, your path from N to H through M is one hour long, and for you H is further away than M.