zonde said:
So how do I tell apart invariants from everything else?
Perhaps your issue is you have not yet connected the concept of "invariant" with the concept of "objectivity", but that is an important connection to draw because all of science is based on what can be objectively established. The latter means, that which different observers can agree on based on their measurements. Or another way to say it is, physics is about predicting measurements,
given that we know some things about the state of the measurer. Relativity adds to that the beautiful idea that the
laws we use to establish what those predictions must not depend on those things,
only the predictions themselves must. Before relativity, this important distinction was not made-- a measurement established something as true for all observers. With relativity, we found that a measurement only establishes something as true for that measurer, and an observer in a different state might arrive at a different measurement, but can still use the same laws of physics to predict either one of those measurer's results--
so long as they account for the measurer's state.
Hence we suddenly had a need for the concept of
translating between measurement outcomes, and one way to do that is via invariants. But the invariant is more than just a mathematical trick for doing the translation-- it is the thing that the measurements are referring to, in the sense that it is the thing that is objective. So to me, the main lesson of relativity is that measurements are only "objective" if we keep track of the state of the measurer, whereas the invariants we construct from the measurements are objective in the true sense of being the same for all observers. That's also why a special relativistic invariant is indeed just a kind of mathematical trick, a means to an end, whereas a general relativistic invariant is actually what the laws of physics must refer to (at least, insofar as general relativity is a good theory of physics). That was, after all, Einstein's primary motivation for GR-- he never liked singling out the inertial observers, and I imagine that's because it didn't seem very
objective to do so.
I think an analogy can help us see deeper into what objectivity means. Imagine a "chick flick" that is being reviewed. Let's rampantly overgeneralize and say that women like this movie and men find it boring. Now imagine a male reviewer who pans the movie and a female reviewer who says it's oscar-worthy. Are either of those reviews making objective claims about the movie? No, the objective claim, and the best review, are simply the statement that women will like this movie and men will hate it (again ignore the absurdity of such sweeping generalizations about movies). Can we say if the movie is good or not? No, we cannot, there is no objective way to do that-- all that is objective is to account for how each person will experience the movie. And how can we tell how each person will experience the movie? By considering what is invariant about that movie-- what aspects can men and women both agree this movie has? So even though we might thus say that experiencing a movie is something subjective, we can still say that accounting for that experience is objective. It is the latter, not the former, that underpins science, and hence the need for invariants.
That's what relativity is trying to tell us, and it was completely new to science at the time, but then quantum mechanics came along and gave us additional reasons to track what the observer is doing. Personally, I'd say the main lesson of physics of the 20th century is that we can never again imagine that physical reality has an existence completely separate from how we perceive it. But then again, Einstein never liked quantum mechanics!
And on the matter of the "reality" of the concept of relativity of simultaneity, I agree completely with
DaleSpam. What's more, I'd say the well-known "Andromeda paradox" that
bobc2 is talking about makes pretty clear the unreality of the entire concept of global simultaneity. We should have learned from relativity that simultaneity is a strictly local concept whose usefulness gets diluted with larger and larger (invariant) separation between the events. Maybe this lesson will someday prove false, but it's all we have to go on at the present moment (pun intended).