Hello OPTIDONN,
I think the best way is to think of waves interfering destructively such that little light is reflected from the surface.
But if you want to explain it with photons, you have to consider quantum mechanical wavefunctions and probabilities. There's the possibility for
the photon to be reflected at the upper surface and at the lower surface.
From this, you could then calculate the probability for the reflection of a photon.
I think the calculations are similar to the ones with the wavemodel, since you are going to use the same phasedifferences. I would calculate it the following way (it's only how I WOULD EXPLAIN IT, I do NOT have any reference for it, thus no garantuee that it is correct):
Since you have two possibilities for the photon to be reflected (upper surface and lower surface), you have two wavefunctions |\Psi_1> and |\Psi_2>. The total wavefunction | \Psi_{total}> is then a superposition of those two wavefunctions PLUS the possibility for transmission, thus |\Psi_3>
| \Psi_{total}> = | \Psi_1> + | \Psi_2> + | \Psi_3>
Let |\Psi_2> = e^{i \delta} |\Psi_1>,
where e^{i \delta} is a phase factor. This phase factor depends on the thickness and the material of the antireflection coating.
Then,
| \Psi _{total}> =| \Psi _1> + e^{i \delta} | \Psi _1> +| \Psi_3>
= | \Psi _1> - | \Psi _1> + | \Psi_3> = | \Psi_3>
where I have set \delta = \pi.
The total probability amplitude is
| \Psi _{total}> = | \Psi_3 >
If you want to calculate the probability for transmission, you get:
P(transmission) = |<\Psi_3|\Psi_3>|^2 = 1
The probability for reflection is:
P(reflection) = 1 - P(transmission) = 1 - 1 = 0.
I hope I haven't confused you, but
I recommend you reading the following texts, where I got the ideas from:
http://departments.colgate.edu/physics/faculty/EGalvez/articles/ajpph.pdf
http://departments.colgate.edu/physics/faculty/EGalvez/articles/ajpbs02.pdf
I can also recommend you Feynman's book ("The Feynman lectures on physics", Volume 3), where he explains in the first two chapters how to obtain the total wavefunction |\Psi_{total}>.
Cheers!
Edgardo