It would be odd to define "simultaneity" so that I could throw a ball and you could catch it simultaneously or even earlier. Given that definition, the physics restricts surfaces of simultaneity to being everywhere spacelike. Also, whatever surface of simultaneity I choose now, the one I choose now may not cross it anywhere, and the ones between those two nows must smoothly progress through the gap. Finally, the surfaces must be achronal, which means they must never circle around and enter the future lightcone of any of their events. (Imagine a (2+1)d Minkowski diagram and draw a shallow sloped helix on it spiralling around the time axis. The helix can be everywhere spacelike but still passes through the future lightcone of its earlier events. That is not achronal.)