Joanna Dark said:
If the stationary observer sees my clock as experiencing time-dilation and I calculate his clock as experiencing time-dilation then it would appear both of our clocks are running slower simultaneously and at the same time they are running faster than each others. That appears grossly absurd to me and completely contradictory.
Stop thinking about what the clocks are "actually" doing. You seem to have this idea that if one observer sees your clock running normally, yet another sees your clock running slow, then there is some kind of contradiction.
Stop thinking that your clock has some "correct" speed. It doesn't. One observer can see it running at one speed, and another observer can see it running at a different speed. There's nothing wrong with this. Similarly, one observer can look at a nearby tree and have it appear very large, while a distant observer sees the same tree as being quite small. It's the same tree, but each observer has a different view of it. There's nothing wrong or contradictory about this.
Repeat this to yourself five times:
Every unique observer has a unique view of every clock.
This is basis for my third reference frame, which allows me to know the simultaneous events taking place. Noone wants to let me offer me that luxury as there is no way I can know what each clock is doing at the same time.
This is exactly the mistake you keep making. You keep wanting to move from a physically realistic frame of some real, human observer into some kind of mystical omniscient "God frame" in which you know what's
really simultaneous and what's
really on the face of the clocks.
There is no God frame. The only information an observer has is that which he sees.
Why couldn't I set it up so I can observe the speed of each clock simultaneously for example?
You're welcome to make such a model, but it is not a model of special relativity. It is some kind of bastardization of relativity which will predict results which are incompatible with experiment, and thus provably wrong.
You cannot simply pick and choose which bits of relativity theory you want to examine and then toss out the rest. Doing so necessarily destroys the consistency of the theory.
the first two clocks would be traveling at normal speed in their own frame of reference and the second two would be experiencing equal time dilation.
CLOCKS DO NOT EXPERIENCE TIME DILATION. Time dilation is an effect that occurs when an observer in one reference frame views a clock in another reference frame. No matter how you move or where you go, you personally will never "experience" time dilation. You may look back at your buddies on Earth and see their clocks running slowly, though.
But if I base my model on your explanation no one sees light travel at c, except for any observer traveling at the same velocity as the the two points my light is traveling between.
The only things you need to accept ab initio are these postulates:
1) All observers measure the speed of light to be the same.
2) The laws of physics are identical in every inertial reference frame.
The
entirety of special relativity (time dilation, length contraction, relativity of simultaneity, etc.) are
all derived directly from these two postulates. You need not suppose or assume anything else.
Why is that? My understanding is based on visually understanding what is happening at each frame of reference simultaneously so it makes intuitive sense. It seems to work fine. Add reciprocation and it doesn't.
Your intuition is
WRONG. The theory you're describing (and attacking!) is a strawman theory which is
not special relativity.
This is the same problem I have with my teacher and no one seems to understand the difficulty I have in accepting reciprocation.
It's as if you were claiming the Earth were a cube, and then complaining that no one seems to understand the difficulty you have in accepting that the Earth has no corners.
- Warren