Hi DParlevliet...getting a 'picture' of this stuff takes some time, so be patient...Expect your head to spin a few more times!
I'll see if I can put some pieces together to clarify and summarize some subtle points...no math because I remember relatively little of it!
From the Wikipedia link already provided:
Interpretation of the wave function
...The Schrödinger equation provides a way to calculate the possible wave functions of a system and how they dynamically change in time. However, the Schrödinger equation does not directly say what, exactly, the wave function is.
Here is another very insightful tidbit from another Wikipedia article:
In quantum mechanics, the Schrödinger equation, which describes the continuous time evolution of a system's wave function, is deterministic. However, the relationship between a system's wave function and the observable properties of the system appears to be non-deterministic… A deterministic model will thus always produce the same output from a given starting condition or initial state.
So this IS crazy: a deterministic expression for quantum behavior! Further, after almost 100 years, arguments still ensue about what the wave function 'really' represents.
Post #2:
Is this the wave of a photon, freely traveling in space?
"Yes", but don't extend that answer too far.
[This 'wave' can be thought of as representing some distributed photon behaviors, a probability distribution relating to likely detection location, but says nothing about observables of this mode. When detected, photons are always pointlike as are all particles in the Standard Model of particle physics. As wiki says, oddly enough, it is a deterministic expression, yet measurements/observables based on it are NOT deterministic.]
edit: Particle 'wave' characteristics are always detected as pointlike objects.
post #9:
The wave amplitude goes as 1/r. The energy ∝ |amplitude|2 ∝ 1/r2.
Turns out the probability of locating a particle is also proportional the the amplitude squared.
post #15:
Going from the standard electrical field picture at high intensities to the single photon level does not change much. You just move on from discussing fields interpreted as real entities to discussing probability amplitudes for the detection of a single photon. When averaging over many of those events...
Haven't seen that before...I like it...Bravo!
In Wikipedia terminology, the 'standard electrical field picture' is deterministic, the single photon is a quantum particle, and measurements [averaging over many events ] turns out to be NON deterministic. Nobody knows why.
Analogously, here is what Roger Penrose says:
...The way we do quantum mechanics is to adopt a strange procedure which always seems to work...the superposition of alternative probabilities involving w, z, complex numbers...are an essential ingredient of the Schrodinger equation. When you magnify to the classical level you take the squared modulii (of w, z) and these do give you the alternative probabilities of the two alternatives to happen...
[and THAT changes things from deterministic to probabilistic!]
There is no intrinsic shape of the "wave of a photon"
[It depends on geometry.]
Post#16:
Well written books can take you through things in a matter of hours that took others many decades of questioning,
a great point...so when you mumble to yourself [as many of us have at times] "That seems crazy." it probably is. It was unlikely not scientists first choice of interpretation...Feynman says something like this about that:
A good physicist is one who has the stubbornness to make all the mistakes possible before finally arriving at the correct conclusion.