Re "unitarity" I like Anorlunda's #17, and the way he distinguishes between quantity of information and actual knowledge.
anorlunda said:
Said another way, a system with N possible states can not have a time evolution into a future with other than exactly N possible states. That's called unitarity. That says nothing at all about knowledge of what the actual state is or was or will be
But I don't agree with this part from his note #20
anorlunda said:
Simple mechanics of particles colliding is reversible. In theory, you can play time forwards and backwards all the way back to the pre-big-bang if you have perfect knowledge and huge computing capacity.
For example, if we have two equal point masses colliding, conservation of momentum and energy laws give us math that allows infinite prior states and after states (with the same "size" of infinity), thus preserving unitarity; but the mapping between a particular prior state and a particular after state is not defined. That is, the angle between the line of approach and the line of separation is not defined. So this system both has unitarity and can map multiple prior states to a single after state.
When we constrain the separation line with an observation (or constrain the approach line with the preparation), we break the unitarity of the math.
If we want to keep it we have to throw some additional assumptions into the physics.
1) Point masses can NEVER collide (! - a reasonable assumption since they will always miss!) or cannot exist (!)
or
2) The line of separation is aligned with the line of approach (in the limit of the above missing by a small amount and the particles are indistinguishable)
2a) If the particles are distinguishable(e.g. have spin), some assumption about which direction the vector from one to the other is oriented before and after.
or
3) Assume unitarity does not get broken, and use it to get interesting results. This gets complicated if the masses can be connected by a "long range" force like that due to a charge (one could argue they are no longer "point" masses, and we are back at 1).
Our physics breaks down below the Schwarzschild radius of every particle (including a black hole), and only works in between the particles, because below that the very concept of before and after are gone.
See this paper for a discussion of avenues to maintain unitarity across observation or entanglement:-
https://arxiv.org/abs/1601.02598
Of note:-
1) photons confined to a point or even just a compact space break unitarity.
2) Maintaining unitarity seems to require including future observations and the setup as part of the "initial" conditions of the wave function.