EinsteinRules said:
...it seems if there was a big bang, there has to be a point when everything was touching...
not sure where you got this idea. professional mainstream scientists do not say this (except in popularization books and media, where they are talking about the observable universe, but this doesn't come across)
it is not a part of the standard LCDM model of the universe that at one time everything was concentrated in a small volume or at a point
a singularity does not mean a point, a singularity can have infinite extent
all "singularity" means is where a theory breaks down, it can be along a whole infinite surface
as far as we know, singularities do not exist in nature----however they do exist in the classic vintage 1915 General Relativity theory: there are circumstances where it breaks down and fails to compute.
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maybe I should do a rough back-of-envelope calculation, somebody who knows please correct if this is off by too many orders of magnitude!
I think that the present density of the universe is about 10
-29 times the density of water and Ashtekar's computer simulations of the quantum gravity big bounce tend to show a bounce when the density reaches 10
93 times the density of water.
so the density at bangtime has to be about 10
122 what it is today, for quantum effects to turn a collapse around and initiate expansion. This means that the radius of a representative volume has to be smaller by a factor of about 10
40 or 10
41
Well now we can take our volume to be the observable ball of universe surrounding us with a radius of 46 billion lightyears and a lightyear is about 10
16 meters. So that radius is about 46 x 10
25 meters
and what we are saying is that according to some QG computer runs, which is very preliminary and tentative indication at best, the radius would have to be shrunk by a factor of 10
40 and so would be on the order of 46 x 10
-15 meters
I'd say that borders on downright incredible. Either it is incomprehensible or at some point when you compress enough it must be true that matter and space are the same thing---geometry itself is able to absorb energy and become a seething mess----spatial relationship and matter become an indistinguishable writhing tangle with a very high specific heat so it can absorb enormous amounts of energy. A theory of quantum geometry has to somehow account for a phase change at these very high densities and pressures---not just phase of matter but phase of geometry itself must undergo change. This is my two-cents hunch.
After all that estimated radius is 10
-14 meters and that is a tenthousandth of an angstrom. In other words a tenthousandth of the size of an atom. Maybe it doesn't happen. We don't understand the bounce. Some big bounce models have it happen at lower density than the recent computer simulations by Ashtekar's group. Maybe Ashtekar's model is wrong and it doesn't ever get that high. That is Planck-scale density.
Or maybe i have made an arithmetic mistake. Anyway. It is too early to try to say what conditions were really like just prior to the beginning of expansion.
The OBSERVABLE universe could at one time have been concentrated in a small volume, sort of like you imagine. I confess that is pretty mindboggling itself. The observable universe is now a ball with us as center and a radius of some 46 billion LY!