My formula is the one commonly listed as the formula for circular velocity in Physics texts and websites such as in this website:
http://ceres.hsc.edu/homepages/classes/astronomy/spring99/Mathematics/sec10.html
But it is used for spacecraft , where m << M. This formula doesn't give barycentric speeds. But in the special circumstance where masses are equal, you can add the masses together, assign them to one object and consider the other object massless. So a formula that does not provide barycentric results will work in this particular instance.
btw...
my formula needs parenthesis around M+m
V_{o} = \sqrt{\frac{G(M+m)}{d}}
I think you meant to do that, but made a tex typo. Your tex code had {{ }} instead of {( )}
Your formula needs to be changed slightly to work, and broken down into separate formulas for the Earth and Moon:
Where
M is the mass of the Earth
m is the mass of the Moon
For the Moon:
V_{o} = m \sqrt{\frac{G}{d(M)}}
For the Earth:
V_{o} = m \sqrt{\frac{G}{d(m)}}