bobie said:
The diagram in the link …
you mean
?
that's a "Feynman diagram", it's not a picture of what happens, it's a diagram that summarises the mathematical equations which tell us which processes are possible, andwhat their probability is
since that particular diagram works mathematically, we know that the particular "decay" it represents
is possible
other diagrams with more Ws (and other particles) also work for the same process: that diagram is the simplest one, and it calculates
most of the probability
the W (boson) is called a
virtual particle because it isn't real
the diagram shows a W
- being "lent" to the surrounding weak field ("emitted"), but it could equally well show a W
+ being "borrowed" from the surrounding weak field ("absorbed")
the wikipedia article is misleading … it says that the neutron can either
emit a W
- (
which it says decays after a very short time), or
absorb a W
+ (which … what?

… it doesn't say … how can any time be involved?)
… showed neutron decayng into a W …
no, it certainly doesn't show that, not even as a mathematical figment
(a neutron can't possibly decay into a W)
it shows the neutron decaying into the proton electron and neutrino
the W is shown as a "mediator" (a catalyst)