I have a few issues concerning black holes and this seems to be an appropriate thread to address them. The following are my understandings, inferences based on those understandings, and a few questions. I would welcome any corrections and answers which you can provide.
1. For a massive star, if one traverses a straight path from the surface toward the center, the strength of the gravitational field steadily increases, reaches a maximum value, near the boundary of the core or perhaps a short distance within the core, then rapidly drops to zero at the center of mass.
The locus of points at which this maximum occurs will form a spherical shell, centered at the center of mass of the star.
2. When this star undergoes gravitational collapse, the general shape of the field-strength curve remains the same. Although the core collapse proceeds very rapidly and, for a while, leaves the upper layers behind, and this gap may introduce a glitch in the shape of the curve, there will still be a radius at which the field strength is maximal followed by a rapid decline to zero.
3. As the collapse proceeds, the density of the core material increases, the radius of the field-max sphere decreases, and, therefore, the maximum field strength increases. When this max field strength reaches the value which corresponds to an escape velocity of C, the field-max sphere becomes the event horizon and a black hole is born. [*note below]
4. In subsequent paragraphs, events, observations, and time are as experienced by an Observer at rest well away from the event horizon.
5. My conjecture is that the radius of the event horizon and mass of the black hole are frozen and never, ever change following initial appearance of the event horizon. My understanding is that velocity of any subsequent infalling matter, as seen by the Observer, rapidly declines as it closely approaches the horizon (due to gravitational time dilation) and, in fact, becomes zero at the horizon, never actually entering the black hole.
6. Therefore, although an accretion disk can form and can grow in mass, the Observer can never detect, in principle, actual ingestion of any matter from that disk. In particular, this implies that two black holes can never actually coalesce.
7. Finally, unless a different mechanism for black-hole creation is proposed, all "giant black holes" must actually consist of a dense cluster of separate, but tightly bound, holes.
8. My conjecture, however, seems to contradict what I read in many places about "dynamical" black holes which are undergoing, or have recently undergone, ingestion of infalling material or merger with another hole.
My Questions:
1. Is my description of the collapse and the invariance of the initial event horizon correct, and if not, where is my error?
2. If strength of the gravitational field is not the cause of the event horizon (per the note below), then what is?
3. What is the final result, as seen by the Observer, of an "encounter" (I won't say "merger") of (a) a black hole and a 10-Solar-mass star, and (b) of two black holes?
I do see the earlier discussion of this proposing a distortion of the horizons of the approaching holes. But if time (at the horizon as seen by my Observer) essentially stops, would even that distortion be seen?
*Note: In a 1994 book by Kip Thorne, I have read about a distinction between the "apparent event horizon" (the one I describe above) and an "absolute event horizon". The latter is said to appear initially as a point at the center of the collapsing star (in "anticipation" of its subsequent phase as a black hole) and then expand as the collapse continues until it reaches the stage that I describe above. Assuming that my description of the field-strength curve is correct (zero at the star's center), what then is the condition that precipitates initial formation of the absolute horizon at a point of zero gravity?
I hope that someone can supply explanations which do not require a PhD in math to comprehend.
Thanks.