erickalle said:
I can just about follow that. So qm includes both the attractive em force and the repulsive force due to wave mechanics? You see i’m still trying to hang on to some kind of visual picture.
It is tricky to try to picture quantum-mechanical issues in too classical a way. The simple response is that it turns out that the ground state of the quantum-mechanical problem of, say, 2 protons and 2 electrons, is a bound state (a H2 molecule). What I tried to sketch was a semi-classical picture, where the electrons are treated purely quantum-mechanically, but the protons are treated classically, assuming that the protons react so slowly that the electron system settles in a stationary state (say, the ground state) almost immediately before they move appreciably. This is possible because of the big mass difference between protons and electrons, and the technique is actually called the Born-Oppenheimer approximation.
As such, in the "classical" proton system, there appears a "potential curve" (which is the parametrized eigenvalue E0(R)), which you can take as a genuine potential curve for the classical proton system. Who says "potential" then says "forces", and these forces are difficult to explain. Call them "quantum forces" if you want. They are the result of the electromagnetic interaction in the given quantum mechanical setting, and are different from the classical electromagnetic interaction you would find between 4 classical point charges of course. Does this mean that there is a "new force" in nature ? No, it is an artefact from our approximation scheme. It's a bit like the centrifugal force in a rotating reference frame. If you insist on working in a rotating reference frame, you have a centrifugal force, but it is not an "interaction" between particles. In the same way, if you insist on a semiclassical picture, "quantum forces" appear to act on the protons.
It is even funnier: we can now quantize the proton system with this "classical potential" E0(R). We will then solve essentially a harmonic oscillator (with some deformations), and the solution to that quantum problem will give you the vibrational states of the molecule.
The entire system of electron states and proton vibrational states is then a good approximation to the entire quantum-mechanical problem we should in fact have considered from the start (that's the other half of the Born-Oppenheimer approximation, and I think it was Feynman who wrote down a proof that this technique works indeed).