Consider a rocket sitting at rest in a 4-dimensional Minkowski space represented by the normal spatial coordinates, X1, X2 and X3 along with X4 (4th spatial dimension). Just sitting there, in our model, it is actually moving along the 4th dimension at the speed of light. To see this, consider what position the rocket must be at along the 4th dimension after one second has lapsed in order for one on board to observe (we leave out the details) the position of the photon of light that has just traveled 186,000 miles along the rest system X1 axis. At that instant the rocket must be positioned 186,000 miles from the origin along the X4 axis (4th dimension).
Now, consider the situation for the blue rocket moving at relativistic speed along the X1 axis of the black rest system. We can represent the coordinates (blue) of the moving rocket as shown below. The strange thing about special relativity is that the rocket is now moving at the speed of light along a 4-dimensional path called the world line, i.e., moving at light speed along the blue X4 coordinate. Even more mysteriously the 3-D cross-section of the universe that the blue observer is living in at a given instant corresponds to a different slice of the 4-D universe as indicated below by the direction of the blue X1 coordinate.
Finally, to make our model a little more surreal, we consider that the rocket, the material object, does not move at all. In fact no physical objects in this 4-D universe are moving at all. In this model, we have a 4-D universe populated with 4-dimensional objects, and if the objects are 4-dimensional, they are not moving.
The point of this is to emphasize that if you wish to carry on a discussion about the passing of time, it might help to first establish a special relativity model of space. Then, see if you can include a concept of the passing of time. For the present model, since there is no physical object in motion, you might consider a conjecture or hypothesis about what it is that is moving along the 4th dimension at the speed of light (note that the 4-D body of someone living for 90 years would extend the order of inches along the X1, X2 and X3 dimensions, but extend the order of 10^13 miles along the 4th dimension).
Two of many models for accounting for time in the literature include 1) A 3-D consciousness advances along the spaghetti-like bundle of neuron fibers (10^13 miles long along a 4-D world line), watching a 3-D movie in a sense, and 2) Consciousness persists all along the neuron world line, and within each approximately 18,600 mile region (roughly 0.1 sec) a psychological illusion of motion is presented to the consciousness (omitting details of the 3-D neuron fractals--essentially corresponding to memory of events that occurred on earlier sections of the world line).
By the way, when considering motion along the world line, we really are just using time ("proper time") as a parameter, the X4 is the actual spatial dimension. So, in that sense we don't really consider time as a physical dimension. We do the same thing in ordinary 3-D space when analyzing the path of a projectile moving through 3-D space--we use time as a parameter--two parametric equations, one for the horizontal dimension and one for the vertical dimension.
Forgive the overly verbose description here. And please don't take it that I'm trying to advance anyone's pet conjectures about time. You can google this stuff. I just thought it might be relevant to point out the possible benefit of considering a special relativity model of some sort when launching into a discussion of time passage.
Having said all of that, it may be more appropriate to discuss the passing of time subject over in a philosophy/metaphysics forum (check the physics forum rules).