Girlfriend talking to a previous love interest

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Start date May 18, 2013
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If you can't trust her, then you can't trust her. The relationship is over. It's not about what she does, but about you not trusting her. You should move on. In summary, the conversation revolves around a man who discovers his girlfriend has been in contact with a guy she previously had a romantic history with. He is upset because she lied about not talking to him and is going on a trip with him. The conversation also touches on the issue of reading someone's emails without permission and the importance of trust in a relationship. The man is torn between confronting his girlfriend and trying to move on.

Jun 24, 2013

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WannabeNewton said:

Lol lisab you got to use facebook more often then.

Oh yeah, I forgot how full FB is of all that stuff! It's all Shiny Happy People Land.

<h2>1. Why is my girlfriend talking to her previous love interest?</h2><p>There could be a variety of reasons why your girlfriend is talking to her previous love interest. It could be for closure, to maintain a friendship, or simply because they have mutual friends or shared interests. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend to understand her intentions.</p><h2>2. Should I be worried if my girlfriend is talking to her ex?</h2><p>It's normal to feel a little uneasy if your girlfriend is talking to her ex, but it's important to trust your partner and have open communication. If you have concerns, it's best to address them with your girlfriend instead of jumping to conclusions. Remember, just because she is talking to her ex doesn't necessarily mean she still has feelings for them.</p><h2>3. How do I know if my girlfriend is still interested in her ex?</h2><p>If your girlfriend is still interested in her ex, she may exhibit behaviors such as constantly talking about them, comparing you to them, or hiding their communication from you. However, it's important to remember that your girlfriend is with you for a reason and it's important to trust in your relationship.</p><h2>4. What should I do if I feel jealous or uncomfortable about my girlfriend talking to her ex?</h2><p>It's important to communicate your feelings with your girlfriend in a calm and respectful manner. Let her know how you feel and why it makes you uncomfortable. It's also important to listen to her perspective and come to a mutual understanding. If the communication between your girlfriend and her ex is causing serious issues in your relationship, it may be helpful to seek couples counseling.</p><h2>5. Is it okay for my girlfriend to still talk to her ex if we are in a committed relationship?</h2><p>Every relationship is different, and it's up to you and your partner to decide what is acceptable in your relationship. Some couples may be comfortable with their partner maintaining a friendship with an ex, while others may not be. It's important to have a conversation with your girlfriend about boundaries and what is acceptable for both of you in your relationship.</p>

1. Why is my girlfriend talking to her previous love interest?

There could be a variety of reasons why your girlfriend is talking to her previous love interest. It could be for closure, to maintain a friendship, or simply because they have mutual friends or shared interests. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend to understand her intentions.

2. Should I be worried if my girlfriend is talking to her ex?

It's normal to feel a little uneasy if your girlfriend is talking to her ex, but it's important to trust your partner and have open communication. If you have concerns, it's best to address them with your girlfriend instead of jumping to conclusions. Remember, just because she is talking to her ex doesn't necessarily mean she still has feelings for them.

3. How do I know if my girlfriend is still interested in her ex?

If your girlfriend is still interested in her ex, she may exhibit behaviors such as constantly talking about them, comparing you to them, or hiding their communication from you. However, it's important to remember that your girlfriend is with you for a reason and it's important to trust in your relationship.

4. What should I do if I feel jealous or uncomfortable about my girlfriend talking to her ex?

It's important to communicate your feelings with your girlfriend in a calm and respectful manner. Let her know how you feel and why it makes you uncomfortable. It's also important to listen to her perspective and come to a mutual understanding. If the communication between your girlfriend and her ex is causing serious issues in your relationship, it may be helpful to seek couples counseling.

5. Is it okay for my girlfriend to still talk to her ex if we are in a committed relationship?

Every relationship is different, and it's up to you and your partner to decide what is acceptable in your relationship. Some couples may be comfortable with their partner maintaining a friendship with an ex, while others may not be. It's important to have a conversation with your girlfriend about boundaries and what is acceptable for both of you in your relationship.