GrayGhost said:
Easy this to say. Hard to prove. If you think about it long enough, my bet is that you change your opinion on that matter. The only proof we need in support of said contention is a standard Minkowski diagram, and the assumption that what is predicted by the LTs "is real". It's not in conflict with the LTs in any way. It merely addresses the nature of time, and hence a deeper implication of the nature of spacetime.
Good post, GrayGhost. Let me take a shot at sketching the Minkowski diagram. I'll use the setup with a blue guy moving to the right at relativistic speed with respect to a black rest system. A red guy is moving to the left in that same system with the same speed (blue and red guys moving in opposite directions with same relativistic speed). In the upper left sketch I have marked off equal distance positions along the respective world lines for the blue guy and the red guy. The fact that we use this symmetric spacetime diagram assures that the calibrations of distances for the blue and red coordinates are the same (otherwise it would be necesary to use the hyperbolic calibration curves).
The blue and red guys each reach the position number 9 at proper times that match each other. The rockets and all objects inside the rockets, including clocks and human bodies, are 4-dimensional objects, so it can be perplexing trying to comprehend who or what is doing the moving. The usual language is that each observer moves along his own world line at the speed of light, c. Einstein's colleague, Hermann Weyl, said something like, "...the observer crawls along his own world line." So, some distance traveled along the 4th dimension would be dX4 = c(dt). To avoid a sidebar on that issue, for now, let's just play like there is some aspect of nature associated with consciousness that moves along the 4th dimension at speed c. It is interesting to ponder the enormous length of a life sized 4-D object along its X4 dimension as compared to their almost negligible X1 length.
So far we have a sketch of the R4 manifold (supressing X1 and X2) with the world lines of the 4-D objects. So, we're having really a purely spatial discussion. The X1' coordinate (blue) and the X'' coordinate (red) is oriented such that the photon world line always bisects the angle between X1 and X4, X1' and X4', ...X1'' and X4''. A photon world line would always bisect the angle between any observer's X1 axis and X4 axis. As a result of this circumstance of the 4-dimensional world, every observer will observe a ratio of 1:1 between displacement along the X4 axis and displacement along the X1 axis for any photon world line. In other words, all observers measure the speed of light as c.
Now, having set up the Minkowski spatial picture, we see in the upper right sketch that one can form a right triangle using X4'', X1', and X4'. Given this purely 4-dimensional relationship, it requires only high school math, Pythagorean theorem, to derive the Lorentz transformations. Here, for example, we derive the transformation formula (rotational) for time, t'' (a clock reading in the red rocket), as a function of the blue clock's time, t'. (see lower right sketch)
The formula indicates that the red guy's clock will lag behind the blue guy's clock as observed by the blue guy. The blue guy's instantaneous 3-D cross-section of the universe, blue's "NOW", intersects the red guy's 4-dimensional rocket at red position 8 when the blue guy is at position number 9. This explains quite clearly the reason for the time dilation effect of special relativity.
But, red's "NOW" (when the red guy is at his position number 9) 3-D cross-section intersects blue's 4-dimensional rocket at blue's position number 8, and sees that the blue guy's clock is lagging behind his own.
Likewise, the lower left sketch illustrates the length contraction effect of special relativity.