Exactly what coordinate system are you using on the surface of the sphere?
A standard choice (I would have thought) would be spherical coordinates, with \theta as "longitudinal" angle, \phi as "co-latitude" angle (measured from the positive z-axis), with \rho set equal to 1. Using those I get
\left( \begin{array}{cc}sin^2(\phi) & 0 & 0 & 1\end{array} \right)
similar to what Wikpedia gives but with \theta as latitude and reversing the order of the components.
I can't see how you could possibly get cos(\theta) without a square. If, as yenchin said, you use "latitude" instead of "co-latitude", you would get cos^2(\theta). Is it possible that your text has
\left(\begin{array}{cc}cos^2(\theta) & 0 \\0 & 1 \end{array}\right)
instead of just the "cos" you give? In that case, the only difference between that and what you give is choice of order of components. The only difference between Wikpedia's result and yours is choice of "co-latitude" rather than "latitude