Jolb said:
I think there might be some hints (as to what started this myth) in Einstein's personality and his feelings over the years.
I don't see anything in Einstein's personality that would encourage a belief that no one (or very few) understood his ideas. In fact, his was quite accommodating when it came to issuing endorsements of other peoples' books and articles on his work. (Witness his endorsement of Fuller's writings.) I would say a bigger circumstance contributing to the fact (not the myth) that very few people in the English speaking world took up the study of relativity before 1919 was that the theory originated at the Kaiser Wilhelm Institute of Berlin in November 1915, at the height of the First World War, when many people in the UK (and even US) were not in the mood to extoll German science (or German anything). Eddington was a Quaker and conscientious objector, so he was unusually pre-disposed to overlook the nationalistic aversions - especially for Einstein, who was also an pacificist and internationalist.
Jolb said:
Don't you think that instead of them being simultaneous, it's possible there was a transition paralleling Einstein's transition from being "absolutely delighted" with Hilbert to being annoyed...?
The sequence of events and communications between Hilbert and Einstein in November 1915 has been studied in great detail. There was a temporary "falling out" between the two, because Einstein was annoyed that Hilbert was trying to 'nostrify' his theory, but a few weeks later they patched things up and remained on very good terms for the rest of their lives. This really has nothing to do with whether or not either or both of them understood relativity perfectly, then or later.
Jolb said:
Edit: It also seems from the context that the comment was written after the EFEs were derived: "Only one colleague truly understood it, and he now tries skillfully to appropriate it."
Well, Einstein finally arrived at the final field equations on Nov 25, and he wrote that comment about Hilbert trying to appropriate his work in a letter to Zangger on Nov 26, so he was referring to communications he had received from Hilbert prior to arriving at the final field equations. (Some have suggested that Einstein got the idea for the trace term from a draft of Hilbert's paper, but this is disputed.)
Jolb said:
I'm not sure that's clear from the Fuller quotation. Do you have anything to back up that he was being metaphorical? I wouldn't be surprised if Fuller's publishers saw the quotation from the New York Times (apparently they were being serious?) and took it seriously.
The Times quote in 1919 said 12, whereas Fuller's story in 1935 says 9. The Times story in 1919 probably wasn't too absurdly wrong (maybe just by a factor of 10?), especially in English speaking countries, but Fuller's story was in 1935, by which time thousands of people had studied general relativity, and yet Fuller has the number dropping from 12 to 9. That's just ridiculous. Also, note that Fuller refers to lists (plural), and says he wasn't on ANY list, and also note that he wasn't writing about general relativity, he was writing about Einstein's philosophy. (For the extent of Fuller's understanding of relativity, take a look at that funny telegram where he "explained" E=mc2 to a friend.)