I try to let fall metal small ball onto metal object and it always reflecting with 1/2 height of height from what ball fall. So if you fall ball from 1 meter it will jump to the height of 0.5 meter. So this shows law, that any object in elastic colision transmiting not full momentum, but half momentum if it is lighter than over object. And about air friction a little bit. I try to let to fall from about 1 m height both for small little metal ball and for ping pong ball of plastic and within full air so there almost invisible diference, maybe only 0.1-0.05 second pingpong ball fall with delay to ground. So air friction at small speed is almost invisible so can be ignored if whatever object except paper falling from 1-2 m height. So I do not see sense in twice momentum kinetic energy transmition and when big object hiting to small I would easier agree, that was transmited either speed of big object or 1.5 speed of big object (about what I now trying to post), but not 2x speed of big object like states official formuls.
For example if I through in cosmos 2 kg object at 100 m/s speed into 10 kg object with zero speed, then after collision 10 kg object flying with 10 m/s speed and 2 kg object flying with 50 m/s in oposit direction. 2*100+0*0=2*50+10*10 so moments conserved.
And if m_1=10 kg, u_1=100 m/s; m_2=2 kg, u_2=0 m/s. Then after collision: v_1=90 m/s, v_2=150 m/s.
And the similar result will be if two objects have same mass, but remeber that if smaller object hitting bigger it transmiting to bigger half of his momentum and if bigger object hitting smaller then it transmiting 1.5 his speed to smaller object, so if two objects have same mass: m_1=2 kg, u_1=100 m/s; m_2=2 kg, u_2=0 m/s, then after collision v_1=-50 m/s, v_2=50 m/s.
edit: ping pong ball from table reflecting some times with 60-80 precent of previous height unlike metal ball which from metal reflecting 50 %, maybe 60%. So imagine if in pinpong ball there pressed air then acceleration of unpressing wall to who more will give momentum to metal table or to ball so it's like twice aquaring momentum of ball, first time ball give half momentum then like spring reflecting, but still should be so mayb particularly pinpong ball reflecting from air (remeber air friction), but no, so reflection depending on who can faster move after walls of objects geting them previous phorm and of course lighter objects have better such priority.
Edit2: Maybe for such objects like ping pong ball or over very good jumping balls there is some tricks with sinchronization of air back reflection. I mean once small or light ping pong ball hit heavy metal ball or object then this metal object instanty giving part his momenum to air and air wave reflecting from over air and fast stroking bigger ball back so that it to smaller or lighter ball giving not his momentum little bit more. From thery big objects reflectivity can be about 75%, but seems from small it's similar but even 5-10 times heavier objects in most cases have also about 5-10 times bigger value and area. This area cousing bigger resistivity of air and from there can come those 75% if object which hit is prety light. 50% by definition and aditional up to 30% from countervibration of air. In though if ping pong ball falling from height together with small metal ball or any over metal objects then diference in hitting ground is not more than 0.5-1 cm. And let's calculate what should be speed when ball fall one 1 m without friction with acceleration 9.8 m/s/s. So speed after one second is 9.8 m/s and average speed is 9.8/2=4.9 m/s, so ball without friction should fall 4.9 m in one second. If after two seconds speed is twice bigger and after 3 seconds 3 times bigger then after half second 0.5 times so 0.5*9.8=4.9 m/s and average speed (0+4.9)/2=2.45 m/s. So in about half second they both falling on the ground from 2 m height, but since I do not sow that ping pong ball significantly fall later then say from 2.3 m height any less or more heavy object falling on ground in 0.5 s. So looks like air resistance at such speeds is almost invisible, but it still may act in some waves and reflection time can be not so short. So this waves hitting over air giving momentum to second waves but half still reflecting and giving back to heavy ball which again giving back to small bakc same waves can be true and for small ball which hit, but here is the trick that he is much smaller and waves less act upon him, but on the over hand bigger harder to accelerate, but still somthing is there.