Breo said:
I am not sure I do understand what you mean by relation. I can see the diagram and the mathematical formulae for each one.
The Feynman rules tells you what mathematical relationship corresponds to each vertex, each propagator, and each external lines... so that you can go on further and calculate the amplitudes and the cross sections later on...
Breo said:
If I have for example H > gg, I look to the posible vertex which have gluons, those are quarks, ghosts or more gluons. Then I check to H possible vertex and there is one with 2 fermions so the only possible way is to make a triangle of 3 quarks in between as the diagram you posted.
This sounds tiring... but in general it's a way... I don't know whether (unconsciously) I am doing this process when I try to think of a diagram...
I would just remember from the Lagrangian that the scalars couple to fermions (so the Higgs->fermion+fermion would be the thing that would come in my mind). Then I would think that you need two external gluons, and so what else could it be but the fermions to be quarks (no other fermions couple to gluons)... then I already think you have been told enough about which quark would be the most dominant one. It's all in the Lagrangian. So I guess I am moving with the symmetries. I wouldn't follow your way, which gives me the impression that you follow the algorithm:
Solve 4+5:
1- write all numbers from 1 to 100
2- choose the number 4 from them
3- write all numbers from 1 to 100
4- choose the number 5 from them
6- combine to the number that corresponds to 4+5.
(I'd drop the 1 and 3 line)
Now a general interaction cannot be answered in 1 way, because there may be more interactions possible... take for example the e^-e^+ \rightarrow f^- f^+ (with f some fermion). This interaction can also be done through photons as well as through Z-bosons.