Remember that 'the expansion of space', including the notion that space can expand 'faster than light' is a co-ordinate dependent thing. Treat the same universe (ours) with the same theory (relativity) but in different co-ordinates and you don't any superluminal expansion. What this means in the end is that you shouldn't worry too deeply about what space expanding faster than the speed of light means, since this does or doesn't happen depending on the co-ordinates you choose to describe the problem in.
This may seem strange, but remember also that things you can actually observe will be the same regardless of the co-ordinate system (as long as you do the maths correctly!). This also means that clearly the properties of 'space' can't be observed as such.
Any question about 'space' in relativity has a different answer depending on the co-ordinates you use. So for instance, whether space expands, is curved or whatever else depends entirely on how you define co-ordinates.
Really what it boils down to is that space is not a physical entity in the way that it is often implied to be when people talk about relativity. As in so many cases, the experts know what they mean by the terminology they use but the meaning gets lost in translation when it gets to the pop-sci level.