ArjenDijksman said:
I don't understand why a particle couldn't affect its pilot wave.
In classical physics there is an interplay between particle and field - each generates the dynamics of the other. In de Broglie-Bohm pilot wave theory \Psi acts on the positions of particles but, evolving as it does autonomously via Schroedinger's equation, it is not acted upon by the particles.
One may think this is unaesthetic, but while it may be reasonable to require reciprocity of actions in classical theory, this cannot be regarded as a
logical requirement of all theories that employ the particle and field concepts, especially one involving a nonclassical field.
However, as you imply, there
is in fact a kind of back-action. This arises from the standard notion that the shape of the quantum field of a particle is determined by the shape of the environment (which consists of many particles, and is part of the boundary conditions put into the Schroedinger equation before solving it, even in conventional QM).
Normally in QM this 'back-action' is not taken into account. The wave guides the particles but back-action of the particle onto the wave is not systematically calculated. Of course, the back-action is physically real since the particle movement determines the initial conditions for the next round of Schroedinger calculation, but there is no systematic way to characterize such feedback. The reason this works in practice is that the back-action may not exert any systematic effect.
There is a fair of amount of interesting speculation lurking in dark corners of the internet that there
is actually a systematic effect in systems which are self-organizing. That is - 'life' is what happens when a physical system uses its own nonlocality in its organization (Note to moderators: don't ban me - I'm just repeating what I heard). In this case a feedback loop is created, as follows: system configures itself so as to set up its own pilot wave, which in turn directly affects its physical configuration, which then affects its non-local pilot wave, which affects the configuration etc..
This sort of thing has never been systematically developed in the pilot-wave literature, largely because the people who talk about it on the internet are in the main well-known wackos (I won't name names, because it's probably against the rules). However, there is something interesting in this idea of 'back-action'. Bohm and Hiley even mention it in their
Undivided Universe testbook - though in a very different context. (p. 345-346 if you're interested).
There is also quite a lot of speculation that the two-way traffic between pilot-wave and particle configurations provides a possible mechanism for consciousness. See Paavo Pylkkanen's
Mind, Matter, and the Implicate Order book (2007) or the Cambridge Pilot-wave http://www.tcm.phy.cam.ac.uk/~mdt26/pilot_waves.html" (lectures 7 and 8).
Peter Holland has explored some deeper ideas related to this question in his work on a possible Hamiltonian formulation of pilot-wave theory. They're a bit technical, but see the following papers:
Hamiltonian theory of wave and particle in quantum mechanics I: Liouville's theorem and the interpretation of the de Broglie-Bohm theory P. Holland (2001)
Hamiltonian theory of wave and particle in quantum mechanics II: Hamilton-Jacobi theory and particle back-reaction P. Holland (2001)