As a side issue, you said:
If the distance is equal in each direction, that to me would mean that we would have to be located at the center of the observable universe that was expanding in all directions at either the speed of light or faster than the speed of light.
But when people talk about the speed of expansion they do not mean the speed that the radius of the observable is expanding. Nobody needs to know that speed.
I can show you how to estimate that speed. But it is more of a curiosity. The real rate that people use is either a'(t) the time derivative of the scale factor, or they use the fractional rate of increase of the scalefactor, namely
a'(t)/a(t) which is the technical definition of the Hubble rate H(t).
Right now a'(t)/a(t) is 1/140 of one percent per million years, and that is H(t=now).
It doesn't matter what the radius of the observable is, that does not enter. What matters is the fractional or percentage rate of increase of distances between stationary observers (observers at rest relative to background.).
We are talking about change in geometry (not ordinary motion, like when you are going somewhere, traveling to some destination.) Another name for dynamically changing geometry is spacetime curvature.
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But if you want to know how fast the matter at the edge of our observable is receding that is another business. The way you find out (nobody would bother to know the number, it isn't important, but we can find it out) is to google "cosmos calculator" and put in standard parameters .27, .73, 71, and then the redshift z = 1100.
That is the redshift of the current edge of our observable. The matter that made the oldest light we can see. The most distant matter we currently can detect light from.
That light has been redshifted by z=1100.
So put that in the calculator and you will get the distance back THEN when the light was emitted (about 41 million LY) and the distance NOW today (45 billion LY, about 1100 times farther) and it will also tell you the speed at which that distance of 45 billion LY is currently expanding (I checked, it says 3.3 c)
Here is the link for "cosmos calculator"
http://www.uni.edu/morgans/ajjar/Cosmology/cosmos.html
It rounds off and does not show as many decimal places as Ned Wright's cosmo calculator, but it does give expansion rates as multiples of c.