The discussion centers on the vanishing of cross terms in the context of an object moving in the x-y plane, specifically referencing equation 8.9. The key reason for this is the definition of the center of mass, which simplifies the calculations in the center of mass frame of reference. Participants suggest examining equations 5.56 and 5.58 for further clarity, emphasizing that in this frame, the position vector r' becomes zero. A question arises regarding the integral of the cross product of r' and v', prompting a deeper exploration of the mathematical implications. Understanding these concepts is crucial for grasping the mechanics involved in the problem.