If you want to derive the force of the electromagnetic field acting on a point charge from fundamental principles of Poincare and gauge invariance of electromagnetics (which latter itself is derivable from relativistic quantum field theory by investigating the unitary representations of the Poincare group a la Wigner), you have to put the particle into the action. The complete action (in Heaviside-Lorentz units with c=1) reads
[tex]S[A,\vec{\xi}]=-\frac{1}{4} \int d^4 x F_{\mu \nu} F^{\mu \nu}-m \int d t \sqrt{1-\dot{\vec{\xi}}^2} - q \int d t A_{\mu}(\xi) \frac{d \xi^{\mu}}{d t}.[/tex]
Of course, it's understood that
[tex]F_{\mu \nu}=\partial_{\mu} A_{\nu} - \partial_{\nu} A_{\mu}[/tex]
and
[tex]\xi^{\mu}=\begin{pmatrix} t \\ \vec{\xi} \end{pmatrix}[/tex]
As you see, this action is Poincare and gauge invariant as it should be.
Taking the variations with respect to the trajectory of the particle, you get the correct (relativistic) equation of motion for a particle in the em. field with the Lorentz force. Taking the variations with respect to the field you get the Maxwell equations with the four-current of the point particle given by
[tex]j^{\mu}(x)=\int d t \frac{d\xi^{\mu}}{d t} \delta^{(4)}[x-\xi(t)].[/tex]
You should be aware that a fully self-consistent solution of this set of equations is very much complicated by the issue of the interaction of the particle with its own radiation field (see, e.g., Jackson, Classical Electrodynamics, 3rd edition or The Feynman Lectures, Vol II for a thorough discussion of this point).