||u||=\sqrt{1^2+2^2-3^2}=\sqrt{14}
||v||=\sqrt{4^2+8^2-9^2}=\sqrt{161}
In a three dimensional euclidean inner product space? You didn't really mean to write minus signs there, did you?
Question: do (1,2), \; (3,6) point in the same direction? That is, as vectors are they scalar multiples of each other? Yes, since (3,6) = 3 \, (1,2). Do (1,2), \; (2,1) point in the same direction? No, because (a) draw a picture (b) for no real number is it true that (1,2) = \lambda \, (2,1), so they are not scalar multiples of each other. Because if they were we would have 1 = 2\, \lambda, \; 2 1= \lambda or 1=4, which isn't (1, \, 2, \, 3, \, 4 \neq 1) true
Caveat one: the algebraic notion I am hinting at is
linear dependence of two vectors, while the geometic notion appears to distinguish between positive and negative multiples. It turns out that the first notion is so convenient, mathematically speaking, that no-one pays attention to the second notion!
Caveat two: I also hinted that it matters what the underlying field is in our vector space, but in this case it seems safe to assume it is R, the field of real numbers.
Sigh... I'm not helping, am I?
My textbook is very unclear and I am very new to vectors.
Title and author? Not that I take your word for its alleged inadequacies, but I am curious.