I suggest that this thread be moved to the philosophy forum. The OP's questions and misunderstandings have little to do with physics.
Dadface, you don't seem to understand how the word "theory" is used by physicists. They wouldn't ever use the phrase "just a theory" except as a joke. A theory is a set of statements that can be used to predict the results of experiments. "The Earth is flat" and "The Earth is spherical" are both theories. It doesn't make sense to think of some theories as "true" and some as "false". They are all "false", but some theories are better than others, in the sense that they do a better job of predicting the results of experiments. Some theories are really good (e.g. general relativity), and some are really bad (the Earth is flat), but none of the theories that have been discovered so far make predictions that agree
exactly with experiments. (That's why I said they're all "false").
It's also important to understand that experiments can only tell us is how accurately the predictions of the theory agree with the results of experiments. The only "facts" in science are statements of the form "Prediction A of theory B agrees with experiment C with accuracy D".
When you understand the above, you will understand why the phrase "just a theory" is so silly. There's no higher form of understanding than the kind you get by finding a theory and determining the accuracy with which it predicts the results of experiments. A theory doesn't stop being a theory at some point when there's sufficient evidence to support it.
One thing that isn't emphasized often enough about "the big bang theory" is that it's not really a theory. It's a set of predictions made
by a theory. The theory is general relativity. We could be more specific and say that the relevant theory here is the assumption (supported by the observed large-scale homogeneity and isotropy of the universe) that the large-scale behavior of our universe can be described approximately by an exactly homogeneous and isotropic solution of Einstein's equation. Either way, the big bang should still be thought of as a set of predictions about the behavior of the universe at times in the past, present and future.
We obviously can't test the predictions about the past directly (since we can't go back in time), but we can certainly test the accuracy of the predictions about the present. We can also indirectly test the predictions about the past. For example, if the universe was extremely hot and dense in the past, getting hotter and denser the further back we look, then there must have been a time when atoms couldn't exist for very long (because they kept getting smashed to pieces by high-energy collisions). At some point, the universe must have expanded and cooled to the point where atoms could remain intact, and at that time the universe must have become transparent to light. (When free electrons got tied up in atoms, they couldn't stop light as effectively as before). If that's what happened, then this light should still be flying around all over the place, and guess what, it is. See e.g. the Wikipedia article on
WMAP.