Do you know where your parents met?

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The thread explores various personal anecdotes about how participants' parents met, highlighting unique and unconventional stories. The scope includes informal storytelling and reflections on relationships, with a focus on individual experiences rather than broader themes or theories.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant shares that their parents met in a nightclub.
  • Another recounts a story where their mother was bailed out of jail after crossing illegally from Mexico, leading to her staying with their father, which has become a humorous long-term situation.
  • A different participant describes their parents meeting in Japan, where their father was teaching English and they lived in the same apartment building.
  • One participant mentions their mother being underage in a bar, hinting at a more playful context.
  • Another shares a story of their parents meeting while riding a rollercoaster, emphasizing the serendipitous nature of their encounter.
  • A participant humorously notes their parents met at UCLA when their father used a wolf whistle to attract their mother's attention.
  • One reply reflects on the implications of the 1960s culture surrounding the meeting at UCLA, expressing discomfort about the details of that era.

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Participants share a variety of personal stories without any clear consensus on themes or commonalities, indicating a rich diversity of experiences but no agreement on a singular narrative.

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Some stories may rely on personal interpretations of events and cultural contexts, which could vary significantly among participants.

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a bit of a history thread

mine met in a nightclub i think.
 
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My parents met in an odd matter. My mom got arrested for crossing illegally through Texas from Mexico. A non-profit bailed her out, and the person whose house they would normally let her stay at got foreclosed because the owner lost his job. Anyway, the person who drove my mom from jail needed to find a place immediately and the only number he could remember off the top of his head was my dad. My dad said he didn't mind someone taking his spare bedroom for a short time.

37 years later he still complains that she hasn't moved out :).
 
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MarneMath said:
My parents met in an odd matter. My mom got arrested for crossing illegally through Texas from Mexico. A non-profit bailed her out, and the person whose house they would normally let her stay at got foreclosed because the owner lost his job. Anyway, the person who drove my mom from jail needed to find a place immediately and the only number he could remember off the top of his head was my dad. My dad said he didn't mind someone taking his spare bedroom for a short time.

37 years later he still complains that she hasn't moved out :).

That's a fascinating story of how your parents met.

My parents met in an unusual/unorthodox manner as well. My father had an early interest in Japan (stimulated from a childhood friend who was half-Japanese), and majored in East Asian studies at his alma mater in the US. He then subsequently moved to Japan to teach English to local students and business executives, and met my mother in the apartment building where they both lived at the time (the neighbourhood where they lived in Japan had a large # of expats from the various countries, including the US, Canada, the UK, France, Sri Lanka, etc.).

The rest, as the saying goes, is history!
 
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My mom was underage in a bar :biggrin:
 
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My parents met riding a rollercoaster at Glen Echo Park (now closed). My mom was sitting with two friends, one seat was vacant (4 seater). My dad was next in line. There was a long line of people waiting to get on, so the attendant asked if it was okay if my dad were to sit in, next to my mom.

Apparently it was more than okay. This was in 1936, so social mores were a little different then than now.
 
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I'm told they first met while smelt dipping with mutual friends.
 
jim mcnamara said:
My parents met riding a rollercoaster at Glen Echo Park (now closed). My mom was sitting with two friends, one seat was vacant (4 seater). My dad was next in line. There was a long line of people waiting to get on, so the attendant asked if it was okay if my dad were to sit in, next to my mom.

Talk about a serendipitous union. The old "pay the carousel operator to sneak you into the empty seat next to the pretty girl trick." I know that one all too well :wink:

My parents met at the dining commons at one of the dorms at UCLA in 1966, the same year that Jim Morrison and Ray Manzerik were getting high on the on the local beach and talking about swimming to the moon. My dad let out a cheesy wolf whistle and my mom fell for it. Pretty straightforward and unremarkable, but effective. Lucky for you guys, though, from that union the DiracPool spawn was birthed :oldcool:
 
DiracPool said:
...My dad let out a cheesy wolf whistle and my my mom fell for it. ...
What a nice story! That makes me imagine more than the main information you may only want to tell :nb).
 
Silicon Waffle said:
What a nice story! That makes me imagine more than the main information you may only want to tell

You can go ahead and imagine it, I really don't want to know the what the hippies did in the dorm rooms at UCLA in 60's after a nutritious meal at the campus dining commons. Somehow I materialized from that era of debauchery, but I'm not wanting of the details :redface:
 
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