bhobba said:
For some reason you don't seem to get an observation is something that leaves a mark here in the macro world.
I totally get what you are saying, but it is a relative thing (relational). My "here in the macro world" is different than a particle's "here in the macro world". When two particles interact, what happens? Did one particle leave its mark on the other, or not? Yet to us they are still represented by wave functions.
Actually, I have a problem with the phrase "here in the macro world" as if there is some other world. Where is "there in the non-macro world"? Seems there is one world that things exist in, and our knowledge about them is limited, so we express what we know as a probability: the probability of what we might measure when we really pin it down. Relational interpretations are saying that different entities can see different things about an objects state or potential measurable state. One might see it as a superposition, and the other might not. ("for example, to one observer at a given point in time, a system may be in a single, "collapsed" eigenstate, while to another observer at the same time, it may be in a superposition of two or more states."
And this isn't limited to the micro world:
"However, it is held by relational quantum mechanics that this applies to all physical objects, whether or not they are conscious or macroscopic."
I just want to understand two interacting particles that I have not observed but know things about as a pair. How does each particle view the other particle. How is that view different than how I view the pair. They obviously have to be consistant, but not neccessarily the same.
Sometimes you seem to take a pure instrumentalist view, that these things are beyond QM, but then other times you acknowledge there is something more.