dyb said:
I see, thanks!
So is that right: If the object falling into the black hole encoded some information on a light beam and sent it to the outside observer, that light beam would get red-shifted while traveling outward. Whatever information were modulated onto that beam, it would reach the observer with an increasingly lower rate.
So it's like I take an audio cassette tape and I stretch one end further and further apart up to infinity while leaving the other end intact. When I now play the music from the tape, the music would get progressively slower and slower, and the pitch would get lower and lower. It would take me an infinite amount of time to listen to the whole tape, although the information encoded on the tape is actually finite.
This is right so far, but now consider that someone outside the black hole has encoded some information (music , say) on a light beam and is transmitting it to the infalling observer, the reverse of what you specified.
We need to specify a bit more here - we'll specify that the infalling observer is falling from at rest from infinity If you are worried about the length of time it takes to fall from at rest at infinity, you can say instead that the infalling observer has just enough velocity to reach infinity if you run time backwards.
When you factor gravity and the motion of the infalling observer both together (and you can't separate them in any coordinate independent way), you find that with the specified initial conditions (of a fall from infinity) that the infalling observer receives at the event horizon a signal that's RED-shfited by a finite amount (2:1). There's an entry in my blog that goes into some detailed, but messy, calculations for the general case, the case of "at rest from infinity" is particularly simple, and if you search you can see that there's general agreement from various PF posters who have worked this problem by various means in various coordinate systems.
The problem with the idea that "time stops" is that one gets the incorrect notion that the infalling observer "sees" infinite blueshift from the outside observer. This never happens, though by starting from at rest sufficiently close to the black hole (rather than at rest at infinity) you can get a finite blueshift.
What really tends to drive the point about event horizons home though is to consider a totally different scneario, the case of the Rindler observer, with a constant acceleration.
This has been posted about before, I don't have any specific references to post at this time, but you can find them if you dig.
It turns out that the Rindler observer sees an event horizon that acts like the event horizon of a very massive black hole (one without any appreciable curvature at the horizon). In this case the interpretation becomes a bit more clear, because if the Rindler observer was watching the Earth fall through his "Rindler Horizon", it's obviously silly to say that time "stops" on Earth while it falls through the horizon.