I'm not sure what you mean by "detector perpendicular to the slits", or by a "flat or solid detector".
I think the point here is that one always reads of the double-slit experiment in a rather "abstract" way, which while allows you to appreciate the strangenesses of quantum mechanics without being stuck in all of the technical details involved in a real experiment, at the sime time can can make you forget that you are talking of an actual, physical experiment here, i.e. of something
real. Even more, of a kind of experiment that you could actually replicate without any complicated laboratory equipment (just think that the original Young's experiment was in the 1803, and he wasn't even really a physicist but a medical student). You can actually replicate a version of this experiment using solar light, a common mirror, and a needle.
Said that, back to your question:
1) it does not really matter how the detector is placed. The experiment can be replicated varying all the details you want, as long as the "key elements" are there. The point is really that if the electron (or the photon, or whatever particle) can reach the target in two ways, you will see (given the suitable conditions of course) the interference pattern which is explained saying that the particle actually "traverses both" the paths. If only one path can be used (for example because you placed a detector in one or both the slits, forcing the particle to "decide" one or the other) no interference is seen.
As long as you implement this concepts, you can change all the experimental details you want (and I'm pretty sure all the conceivable variants have been tried by now).
Another thing I want to point out here is that even talking of "one or two" paths the particle can take across the slit/slits is not really exact. Even when only one slit is used there are an infinite number of ways the particle can cross it, and you still have your interference pattern in the form of a diffraction pattern.
On this regard note that the original Young's experiment only used a single slit. See also all of the single slit diffraction effects of light (e.g.
Arago spot,
Airy disk) the concept of which is in principle still valid for any particle.
About the "many paths" concept a very very nice divulgative (at least in principle) book by Feynman on the subject is
QED
2) The velocity does not really matter here, aside from the experimental difficulties of detecting electrons "too slow" or "too fast". However the
intensity of the beam is a quite relevant parameter. The intensity is connected with the number of particles crossing the slit/slits in a given amount of time, and makes the difference between seeing single detection events on the screen or seeing interference patterns. (see also
this question on a similar subject).
3) Well... do you know of a flat, not solid camera? Same thing for detectors :).
A few other interesting (at least for me) basic experiments, in some way or the other correlated to the double-slit one:
Diffraction Grating,
Hanbury Brown and Twiss.