Let v be a eigenvector with eigenvalue [itex]\lambda_1[/itex] and u an eigenvector with eigenvalue [math]\lambda_2[/math], both with length 1.
[itex]\lambda_1<v, u>= <\lambda_1v, u>[/itex]
(<u, v> is the innerproduct)
[itex]= < Av, u>= \overline{<v, Au>}[/itex]
(because A is symmetric)
("self adjoint" in general)
[itex]= \overline{<v, \lambda_2u>}= \lambda<v, u>[/itex]
so that
[itex]\lambda_1<v, u>= \lambda_2<v, u>[/itex]
[itex](\lambda_1- \lambda_2)<v, u>= 0[/itex]
Since [itex]\lambda_1[/itex] and [itex]\lambda_2[/itex] are not equal,
[itex]\lambda_1- \lambda_2[/itex] is not 0, <v, u> is.