virgil1612 said:
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A. The space expands everywhere, ...
or
B. The space really doesn't expand AT ALL in our local group. ...
... Is it just semantics?...
I think it is indeed partly semantics, Virgil. Since space is not a "thing" or a "material", what do we mean by "space expands"?
What is the
operational meaning, in terms of measurements we make and results we expect?
I think "space expands" means that distances between observers at CMB rest grow in size at some fractional rate.
The concept of
at rest is very important because one cannot even be clear about distances at some given time, or growth at a given rate, unless one has a concept of universe standard time. The Hubble law, the apparent pattern of expansion, only has meaning if one pictures a network of stationary observers (at rest wrt the ancient light from when the ancient matter was more or less evenly spread). These stationary observers can all synchronize their clocks because they are at rest. To be contemporaneous means to measure the same temperature of the CMB and estimate the same age of universe expansion. Geometry is the web of geometric relations between them. The distances between them are steadily increasing.
To the best of mortal knowledge all the galaxies and gas clouds etc live in a
soup of ancient light which is remarkably uniform and is what provides us with our criterion of rest. I forget how many CMB photons there are per liter of volume, at the present time. Some known number.
Redbelly, a PF member, said something perceptive--I remember it from years back. In effect it is not "space" that expands, it is the CMB that expands.
It is the soup of ancient light that expands.
It is the criterion for being at rest in the universe that expands.
And so OF COURSE the distances between stationary observers increase at some fractional or percent rate per unit time.
When people study the expansion and make increasingly careful measurements of the rate, and the "redshift distance relation" etc,
they correct for the motion of the solar system relative to CMB. they convert all their measurements so as to be from the standpoint of an
observer at rest.
The solar system is not at CMB rest, it is moving 370 km/s in the direction of constellation Leo. The speed and coordinates have been determined much more precisely, but I don't remember them. That motion is subtracted out of the data. Distance expansion is something observed to happen between observers at rest.
Of course the observers at rest in the Virgo cluster are hypothetical.

PeterDonis makes an important point when he says "ON AVERAGE" moving apart. We expect that the random individual motions of things in their surrounding space will sort of average out, at least over some large scale. And they do seem to.
It would be nice to know some people in the Virgo cluster who could measure their individual motion wrt CMB the way we do, and converse with us and tell us their motion, that they correct for. So we could be really precise about this. But we don't and it would take such a long time if we did. So we have to rely on individual random motions averaging out, and take a large sample and do "least squares" etc. Statistics.