jing said:
OK but where students understanding is firmly based on the idea of difference being taking away a number of objects from another number of objects the concept that difference now means something utterly different can be just seen as some sort of strange nonsense
Eeh? Honestly, I have no idea what you are up to in this thread.
First, you vigorously oppose any sort of logical teaching of maths to pupils, and then, when you are given a few ways as to how we might visualize maths, and even how to handle maths in a tactile manner, you criticize that different visualizations highlight slightly nuanced properties of arithmetic and call this expanding of ideas as utter nonsense.
It seems to me that what you are after is a single, hand-wavy manner in which to "teach" something that no longer bear any resemblance to either maths and logic. I can wish you a good hunt, even though you won't find what you seek, and nothing you find that seems to fulfill your requirements will be desirable to be taught.
For the record, I would like to say it is precisely the ossification tendency, i.e, to regard math symbols to have one and only one application in "real life" that should be combated by math teachers.
The "true" meaning of math symbols are given as parts of a particular system of LOGIC, whereas their applicability is as wide and varied as the world itself is.
Thus, it is not, as you seem to think, unpedagogical to teach pupils how to THINK, and to think LOGICALLY, along with gradually expanding their concepts of how we might interpret maths in a variety of settings and visualizations.
Those of us who have reached this point of view reached these ideas in our adolescence without any help of our teachers at all; if the teachers had made these points explicit to the other pupils, it is probable that they would have reached the same level of competence in maths and physics as us so-called "math geniuses".