FLUKEY OR SPOOKY? Incredible real-life coincidences or are they?

[LightbulbSun]

One in a million events are common but only for some types of events.

What would you like to know?

The odds of running into someone you know, but haven't seen in about a few decades.

 

[Ivan Seeking]

Ah, but you are the one asserting that this can all be explained by the odds. The burden of proof is yours to support this assertion with calculations. I will gladly provide details of my encounter with my classmate, but I have no idea what the odds of the event might be.

 

[Ivan Seeking]

Yesterday I posted this.

From there he went to The Tomorrow Show, which I watched for many years. I remember him talking one night with a comedian and good friend - forget his name - about an evening at an expensive Los Angeles restaurant. After getting exceedingly drunk, they noticed two suits of armor in the lobby. Somehow they managed to get into the armor and started greeting guests with a sword and lance, which nearly got them arrested.

https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=178756

A few hours later I ran into town [a small town some miles from here with a pop of about 10,000] and stopped at my favorite mart for milk and such. The adjacent business closed recently and a new one has moved in, but they are still preparing the building. The store only has a few parking stalls, and I was forced to park in front of their neighbors place. As I pulled up to the parking stop, I looked up and through the window saw a full suit of armor, complete with sword.

 

[moose]

On Wednesday I was with a friend leaving his GFs house. We were on our way to a grocery store. We were talking about many things and at one point we started talking about a friend of ours who joined the Air Force back in March. We go into the store, and my friend yells "Oh my god!". I look and there's the air force friend standing there! We haven't talked about this kid for months and the day we mention him happens to be the first day he comes back from Texas. The fact we even saw him was weird. He was only at the store for 10 minutes.

It's also cool when you and a buddy start singing the same song at the same moment out of nowhere. It's happened twice to me where a friend and I have started to sing the same song at the same moment at the same part of the song, without having heard the song for days. It's kinda creepy, but it's possible that there was some noise made by the AC or the fridge which happened to sound like a part of some song. I don't know.

 

[Far Star]

A number of years ago a man was walking along the road and my first thought was "Someone's going to hit him". He wasn't close enough to the travel lane for concern so it was a little weird to think that. A few minutes later I passed that way again and he'd been hit by a car.

Not quite as spooky as the nuns and dog, though. I've been wondering about that one for days.

 

[Swatje]

I once met someone from my class 600 miles from where I live.

Now THAT was wierd.

 

[mgb_phys]

Well just remember, even a one in a million chance these days is a very probable ratio.

I tried to convince an IT manager of this, we had a cluster of 64 machines, each with 16Billion bits of memory and doing 3Billion operations/second.
He couldn't see that we should get random errors occasionally - because "computers don't make mistakes"

 

[Ivan Seeking]

I had been planning that Tsu and I go for a hot-air balloon ride on Saturday for her birthday. As it turned out we decided to wait as it wasn't a good time to do this. Nonetheless, it was a real eye-opener to wake up to this on Saturday morning.
http://www.canada.com/topics/news/national/story.html?id=50ae170b-a69b-444f-80c4-15655297cb28&k=92642

 

[Burnsys]

This is what happened to me, i work as a software developer, so i have advanced knowledge of computers, i am also a performance freak, and my home computer almost never crashes.
I live with my girlfriend and i have a couple of folders she must never see! (that means if she see those folders the relationships is over!) anyway i am very carfull when opening those, i always close them, they are hidden in the hard disk and has names that don't mean nothing, So one day i forgot to close one of the folders and went to work. A couple of hours after i came back my girlfriend was in the computer and she told me: Look, what is this folder? Call me lucky, the folder just hang out Explorer.exe! (it never happened me before) and so it's contents could not be seen.. So i sayd, mmm. it looks like a virus! Restart the PC!

 

[mgb_phys]

i have advanced knowledge of computers...
my girlfriend...

Now that's a coincidence too far!
I mean, meeting the Loch Ness monster and Elvis in the same motel - ok, but "I have advanced knowledge of computers" and "I have a girlfriend" is just too far fetched.

 

[Ivan Seeking]

I was reminded of this today: There was a skit on the show "Saturday Night Live", way back with the original crew, in which John Belushi and Gilda Radner [two of the original cast members] were each playing them self, but many years in the future. The set-up was that as the only surviving cast members, now old and gray, together they walked around a graveyard where the rest of the cast was buried, and they reminisced about the good ole days.

Gilda and John were the first two cast members to die.

 

[Ivan Seeking]

Also, take a look at the strange similarities between Kennedy and Lincoln.
http://www.school-for-champions.com/history/lincolnjfk.htm

 

[Far Star]

Gilda and John were the first two cast members to die.

Hadn't thought of that. More spooky than fluky.

 

[bassplayer142]

I have a few stories of things like this. The first one is a number one like many of you had but I feel mine is really significant. First of all the number is 817. Many times I have seen it and showed people to where they think it is kind of funny. I remember driving by a house and seeing it on a mailbox just staring at me. When I bought my used truck I opened the hood and under it near the radiator is 8-17 stamped on there. It wasn't some number that came when the truck was made. It's like a yellows stamp kind of crooked and off centered like someone put it there obviously before I owned it. Next comes a even more unprobable part. My birthday is August 17 which is 8-17. Did I mention that My birth certificate says I was born at 8:17 (pm I think). All these can be proved if someone is interested. I will try to think of more for later

 

[phlegmy]

my weirdest co-incidence was about billy joel!

i had a dream (just before waking up) with that billy joel song
"in the middle of the night... etc"
i mentioned it to my mother over breakfast. she was going to give me a lift into town, i can't remember for what.
so halfways to town i turn on the radio and, you guessed it, that exact billy joel song started playing. and it dosn't get much airtime (not sure if I've heard it since). anyway my mother and i were very amused at this!

now the chances of that happening are remote but well within possibility but...

we arrived home after about an hour or so and the postman had been. and there was a letter for me, it was from an old school friend i hadnt seen in about 2yrs and the letter started out as a how do you do type letter, he wrote that he'd remembered that i was BIG into music and he thought that i "had what it takes" and to encourage me he included the story of another young musician, which took up more than half the letter, that musician was Billy joel! that was the only time i heard from the guy in the last 7 years!

 

[Huckleberry]

When I was in the navy I was eating lunch on the ship with a friend. He was the weatherman. We had known each other for several months, perhaps a year, but had never talked about our past. Somehow the conversation came to where we were from. He said he was from Pennsylvania. I told him I had lived there for a year when I was a child. Turns out we lived in the same small town. We had a friend in common. They had the same first name. A year or so later I met him again at my friends house while I was visiting for the holidays.

Things like that happened a lot when I was in the military, with enough frequency that they weren't that surprising anymore. The number of people that I interacted with was much greater than it is now. Now I see the same people every day and there doesn't seem to be as many surprising coincidences. When I'm outside of a familiar area or activity I notice these things more.

 

[Anticitizen]

I have two.

I'm originally from Knoxville, Tennessee.

When I was in sixth grade, my parents decided to do a road trip of the northeastern coast.

We spent two days in Washington, DC.

So I'm in the Smithsonian Air and Space Museum, staring blandly at Ross Perot's helicopter, and I look down, and on the other side of the helicopter is one of my schoolmates and friends, also looking at the helicopter. His parents also had decided on a Northern trip for the summer.

I saw him the next day at the Natural History Museum.

I knew from talking to him that he lived only a few blocks away from my house, but I never saw him in my own town before or after that event outside of school. Kinda wacky that the only place I'd see him outside of school would be many hundreds of miles away.

The second is freakier in my mind...

Around 18-19 years old or so, I randomly grew a taste for island music of several flavors - calypso, reggae, mambo, etc.

I was visiting a friend in a nearby city, Oak Ridge (one of the two birthplaces of the atomic bomb) which is about 15 miles away from Knoxville.

We stopped into a thrift store at random.

Well, I started sifting through the vinyl records that one inevitably finds in a thift shop. (I had a turntable at home). I found some "south seas" music records, purchased them, and took them home.

Well, I pull the first record out of its cardboard sleeve, and find that the person that owned the record was the sort of person that puts their name and address on everything. The fact that someone would put their name and address on a vinyl record of generic mambo tunes is unlikely enough, because when are you going to ever lose a freakin' record?

Well, the name was unfamiliar, but the address was MY ADDRESS.

The home where my family lived, and still lives, (in a neighboring city of 250,000+ people!) for over 25 years!

Blew my teenage mind. Against all odds, someone decades prior liked the same obscure sort of music that I liked, in the same obscure (nowadays) medium that I employed (vinyl), that decided to put their name and address on the record, and lived in the home i was pottytrained in and graduated high school in - then gave their vinyl record to a thrift store in a neighboring city where they presumably moved, where I many years later walked in and purchased it.

Don't even know how to approach the odds on that one.

 

[DHFabian]

I'll go with fluky, considering the international nature of online stuff. I was doing some research this morning on alleged paranormal activities around southern Wisconsin. I came across a 2007 post on this board from "sas3" who mentioned being from Tichigan Lake. I grew up in Tichigan (left in the mid-1970s, and moved to Jefferson Co by way of California...don't ask). The writer mentioned a concert by the Moody Blues (my favorite band since the late 1960s)and this post was written on my birthday (July 12). Coincidences happen.

 

[DaveC426913]

I'll go with fluky, considering the international nature of online stuff. I was doing some research this morning on alleged paranormal activities around southern Wisconsin. I came across a 2007 post on this board from "sas3" who mentioned being from Tichigan Lake. I grew up in Tichigan (left in the mid-1970s, and moved to Jefferson Co by way of California...don't ask). The writer mentioned a concert by the Moody Blues (my favorite band since the late 1960s)and this post was written on my birthday (July 12). Coincidences happen.

You know what spooky activity I just saw??

I just saw a thread rise from the dead, having been buried for almost three years! Whoa!

 

[GeorginaS]

Yeah, but it works so nicely with the current "Ghost Story" thread.

Oooo was that a coincidence? Or did someone make that happen?

 

[DHFabian]

Nah, didn't rise from the dead. I just spend enough time wandering through the Internet crypts
(the fun of obscure researches). The point is, you can find an "eerie" chain of coincidence in nearly anything, if you look long enough. There's nothing mystical or spooky about it. It just happens.

 

[DaveC426913]

The point is, you can find an "eerie" chain of coincidence in nearly anything, if you look long enough. There's nothing mystical or spooky about it. It just happens.

I agree.

I often have to explain that "coincindences happen. And they don't need to be explained; they're coincidences - that's the definition."

 

[Ivan Seeking]

This is the problem that I see: What are the odds?

Far more often than not, we have no idea what the odds for any particular event might be, so we can only assume that all "coincidences" can be explained as statistical flukes. But we can't state that as a fact. We have no way to test the claim. We have no model by which to make predictions and then test the frequency of such events. If coincidences occur more often than they should, we wouldn't have any way to know.

 

[zoobyshoe]

I agree.

I often have to explain that "coincindences happen. And they don't need to be explained; they're coincidences - that's the definition."

Remember this next time you see something in a painting that looks like a brain.

 

[baywax]

I agree.

I often have to explain that "coincindences happen. And they don't need to be explained; they're coincidences - that's the definition."

Actually the definition of coincidence would be two incidences taking place at the same time... which happens all the time.

 

[Ivan Seeking]

There is no need for language trivia or discussion of the trivial case. We are talking about events that are perceived to be statistically unlikely. The trouble is that we have to define what statistical relationship exists. And then determine how often one would expect a 1:100, or 1:1,000,000 event, or whatever the odds are, to occur.

 

[Thetom]

The TV programme Million2One airs a lot of real-life incidents like some of the above, and in the end calculates the probability of that happening.

There's this old man, somewhere in England. His daughter takes care of him, but for a few hours on a particular day, she goes back to her house, which was just down the street (or somewhere pretty close by). During those fateful hours, the old man has a heart attack. He tries to call his daughter, but by mistake dials the wrong number. But guess what, he dials to a public phone in a quiet corridor in a city hospital. And who was walking by when the phone rang? His granddaughter, who happens to be working as a nurse there! He was eventually brought to the hospital and was saved.

Wow! That is... uncanny :) What are the odds of that? He was a very fluky guy (or very spooky, depending on your views).

There can't be millions of people on their death-beds all trying to call help and getting the wrong number. Enough so that it becomes probable that one would get the right wrong number at some point. Can there?

 

[DaveC426913]

Remember this next time you see something in a painting that looks like a brain.

OK, but ten things coming together at the same time and place doesn't really fit coincidence.

 

[GeorginaS]

There is no need for language trivia or discussion of the trivial case. We are talking about events that are perceived to be statistically unlikely. The trouble is that we have to define what statistical relationship exists. And then determine how often one would expect a 1:100, or 1:1,000,000 event, or whatever the odds are, to occur.

I think that the key word in this is "perceived". Perceived as statistically unlikely. I think that's beginning with the faulty premise that there is a statistical unlikelihood to begin with.

The name of this thread is "incredible real-life coincidences" when, really, I don't think they stretch credulity, but they are awfully darned interesting.

How many individual events happen to every person each and every day? We only pay attention to the ones that have any significance or meaning to us personally because we'd otherwise be overwhelmed with information. Add to that that our brains are designed to perceive patterns and then we also have a tendency to group together supporting ideas that include evidence of that pattern.

A simple one is how many people do we walk past every day? We don't take note of the majority of them nor does it seem remarkable to us that there are other people in public places where we are. But run into someone at Safeway who you haven't seen since high school 30 years ago, and you both attended a high school on the opposite end of the country, and now you have a "what are the chances?" event. It's not a statistical question. You've already been in that store day in and out with hundreds and hundreds of people. Why is running into someone you know less likely than running into all kinds of people you don't know? You don't pay attention to one grouping, but you pay attention to the other grouping.

And I think if we peer too closely at coincidences -- which are, I think, really just regular events we pay attention to rather than not -- we begin wandering into synchronicity and meaning and whatnot. (One especially has to be careful of the "whatnot". It sneaks up on you.)

 

[QuanticEnigma]

You've already been in that store day in and out with hundreds and hundreds of people. Why is running into someone you know less likely than running into all kinds of people you don't know? You don't pay attention to one grouping, but you pay attention to the other grouping.

The probability of running into someone you know is much higher than running into somebody you haven't seen for 30 years and on the other side of the country, I think it's the latter that's more significant in that situation. This is a pretty trivial point, but the number of people you don't know far outnumbers the number of which you do know, so it would make sense you would pay attention to that minority when you are out. That being said, I don't think you would walk into a store, expecting to see someone from 30 years ago, and from the other side of the country.

 

[zoobyshoe]

There is no need for language trivia or discussion of the trivial case. We are talking about events that are perceived to be statistically unlikely. The trouble is that we have to define what statistical relationship exists. And then determine how often one would expect a 1:100, or 1:1,000,000 event, or whatever the odds are, to occur.

I brought this up before a few years back, but I guess it bears repeating. Feynman deftly pointed out the irrelevancy of statistical probability to any given event:

"You know, the most amazing thing happened to me tonight. I was coming here, on the way to the lecture, and I came in through the parking lot. And you won't believe what happened. I saw a car with the license plate ARW 357. Can you imagine? Of all the millions of license plates in the state, what was the chance I would see that particular one tonight? Amazing!"

Any given specific event is statistically extremely improbable. The more specifically you define the event the more true that becomes (that particular license plate on that particular night!). As Georgina pointed out, we only notice the incredible improbability when the specific event has personal significance. The odds of running into a person you haven't seen in 30 years at the store one day are actually about the same as the odds of running into a specific individual you've never encountered before, if only you appreciate how specific that specific individual actually is, and how specific that time and place. Each stranger, each time, each place, is a very specific. Once you pay attention to that, and focus on how specific they are, the odds of you encountering them become less and less probable. We beat unbelievable odds moment by moment, all day long.

As Georgina emphasized, the key word is "perceived". We are pattern-seeking creatures, with a distinct leaning toward giving everything a kind of "pattern test". Very small whiffs of familiarity put us on alert and we test them to see if they fit a pattern we know. By this mechanism, a circle, two dots and an arc are "recognized" as a smiling face: , when in fact it bears no authentic resemblance to any face in nature. We even accept it rotated 90 degrees, without the circle :) It's a stripped down abstraction that never-the-less works due to our propensity for checking for patterns at many different levels of perception. Certain kinds of specificity take on extraordinary importance. Other kinds, though equally specific, are ignored, discounted.

Calulating the probability of an event ends up being immaterial in determining if it was a coincidence or not. If you define the event according to certain parameters it become statistically impossible that it should ever occur. Define it according to other parameters, and it becomes inevitable that it should occur.

 

[QuanticEnigma]

As Georgina pointed out, we only notice the incredible improbability when the specific event has personal significance. The odds of running into a person you haven't seen in 30 years at the store one day are actually about the same as the odds of running into a specific individual you've never encountered before, if only you appreciate how specific that specific individual actually is, and how specific that time and place. Each stranger, each time, each place, is a very specific. Once you pay attention to that, and focus on how specific they are, the odds of you encountering them become less and less probable. We beat unbelievable odds moment by moment, all day long.

Thanks for clarifying that, I think I was referring to all strangers, not a particular individual. But maybe a person isn't considered "particular" until you actually acknowledge them. For example, the probably of seeing "a person" in the street is very high, but if you find out his name and then hope to see him again, that probability drastically reduces. So, really, its the probability of finding him again that's low, not the probability of finding him in the first place. Since you've already seen the friend from 30 years ago, the chance of finding them again is very low, whereas the chance of finding a stranger for the first time is very high.

 

[turbo]

https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=1152374&postcount=8

Old post, but still a "wow" moment.

 

[GeorginaS]

Any given specific event is statistically extremely improbable.

Thank you for all of that, Zooby. You fleshed those thoughts out far more coherently than I did.

 

[DaveC426913]

"You know, the most amazing thing happened to me tonight. I was coming here, on the way to the lecture, and I came in through the parking lot. And you won't believe what happened. I saw a car with the license plate ARW 357. Can you imagine? Of all the millions of license plates in the state, what was the chance I would see that particular one tonight? Amazing!"

The one I've always used (because I invented it) is:

"More babies are born during a full moon than any other time. Just ask any nurse; they'll corroborate it."

To which my response is: when is the last time a nurse, while attending a birth, looked out the window and remarked "Wow, another baby born during a waning gibbous Moon!"?

 

[zoobyshoe]

Thanks for clarifying that, I think I was referring to all strangers, not a particular individual. But maybe a person isn't considered "particular" until you actually acknowledge them. For example, the probably of seeing "a person" in the street is very high, but if you find out his name and then hope to see him again, that probability drastically reduces. So, really, its the probability of finding him again that's low, not the probability of finding him in the first place. Since you've already seen the friend from 30 years ago, the chance of finding them again is very low, whereas the chance of finding a stranger for the first time is very high.

You're missing Feyman's point. A "friend from 30 years ago" is much more specific than a "stranger", just like the license plate ARW 357 is vastly more specific than just "a license plate." To appreciate how unlikely encountering the stranger is, even for the very first time, you have to define them at least as specifically as the friend from 30 years ago. The stranger has to become something like: A 179 lb. blonde man wearing a leather jacket over a purple t-shirt.

You won't notice how specific that man is under normal circumstances because the specificity of his weighing 179 lbs, being blonde, and wearing a leather jacket over a purple t-shirt all at once means nothing to you. Regardless, it's pretty specific and the odds of you encountering a man that specifically defined are extremely low. Keep your eyes open for the license plate ARW 357, for instance. You'll probably never see it. Yet, on that particular night before his lecture, that's the very license plate Feynman saw. Amazing! What are the odds?

The point is that improbable odds can't be used to support the argument a thing was not coincidental. We only get exited at how specific an event is when the particular specificity happens to mean something to us. In fact, all events are specific, hence: improbable, but we normally don't notice that or care. The odds of finding a particular specificity that happens to be important to us now and then are actually high because we are pattern-seeking creatures, with prodigious memories, and we enthusiastically make connections.

That doesn't mean everything is a coincidence. It just means we can't cite improbable odds in support of non-coincidence. Proving a thing was not a coincidence, if you wanted to try, would have to be done by some other investigative means or logic.

 

[alt]

The probability of running into someone you know is much higher than running into somebody you haven't seen for 30 years and on the other side of the country, I think it's the latter that's more significant in that situation. This is a pretty trivial point, but the number of people you don't know far outnumbers the number of which you do know, so it would make sense you would pay attention to that minority when you are out. That being said, I don't think you would walk into a store, expecting to see someone from 30 years ago, and from the other side of the country.

Hi all;

I just read this entire thread. Interesting. I would respectfully call most of the incidents mentioned thus far, as coincidence or confirmation bias.

Re the above post;

- Running into someone you hadn't seen for 30 years ? Unremarkable.

- Running into someone you hadn't seen for 30 years, but whom you were clearly thinking about (for the first time in years) 30 seconds ago, or 30 minutes ago ? Very remarkable.

And as Ivan says, what are the odds .. and many deeper questions than that too.

 

[Borg]

https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=1152374&postcount=8

Old post, but still a "wow" moment.

A neighbor of mine had a ferret that I can't remember the name of - I'll call him Bob. Anyway, Bob got away and my neighbor put up flyers around the neighborhood. Several days later he got a call from a local tavern saying that they had his ferret. The name of the place was Bob's Tavern.

 

[zoobyshoe]

Thank you for all of that, Zooby. You fleshed those thoughts out far more coherently than I did.

Thanks!

 

[Ivan Seeking]

Calulating the probability of an event ends up being immaterial in determining if it was a coincidence or not.

That is only true if we have no way to determine how often the event [probability] should occur, and to then test for the frequency of that occurence. With a large enough sample, a high confidence in the predictions can be achieved.

If I am traveling across the country and never visit the same place twice, and I keep seeing the same license plate [the same car], I could eventually rule this out as chance with high confidence.

No doubt, the perceived likelihood is often not the same as the statistical likelihood. That is why I chose the word "perceived", and then made the distinction that we need to determine the statistical relationship. However, this does not imply that all "flukey" events are merely perceived to be unlikely. Some truly are unlikely. But, we also expect strange events from time to time because we experience so many events in our lives. And therein lies the problem: In most cases, we have no means of formulating a practical test. However, depending on the case at hand, this can also limit our ability to make definitive statements either way. In some if not most cases, we can't know if events like this occur more often than they should. We can only state what we expect based on known scientific principles.

 

[zoobyshoe]

With a large enough sample, a high confidence in the predictions can be achieved.

I agree with this completely. In the case of these spooky/flukey stories, though, people usually try to guestimate odds from single occurrences.

 

[DaveC426913]

- Running into someone you hadn't seen for 30 years ? Unremarkable.

- Running into someone you hadn't seen for 30 years, but whom you were clearly thinking about (for the first time in years) 30 seconds ago, or 30 minutes ago ? Very remarkable.

No. That is a coincidence.

And as Ivan says, what are the odds ..

They are highly unlikely.

But in a complex world, highly unlikely events are inevitable*.


*See what I did there?

 

[alt]

No. That is a coincidence.

They are highly unlikely.

But in a complex world, highly unlikely events are inevitable*.


*See what I did there?

Yes, of course - coincidence.

The event I mentioned could be, probably is, coincidence.

The thing that follows from that, is what are the odds - a very difficult, if not impossible thing to calculate ?

And what if such events happen much more frequently than what one might expect ?

I know that your resposne would be as above, ie, 'in a complex world, highly unlikely events are inevitable' ..

But if such highly unlikely events occur with a high frequency, it does leave one wondering.

 

[GeorginaS]

Yes, of course - coincidence.

Yes, because that's what those events are called.

And what if such events happen much more frequently than what one might expect ?

Define a reasonable frequency expectation is for such events. Once a month? Twice? Once a year? What are the parametres for those expectations?

But if such highly unlikely events occur with a high frequency, it does leave one wondering.

If you read what's already been written, what makes you say that that event is highly unlikely? Coincidences happen all the time and with great frequency. I'd surmise, then, that they're very likely.

And, then, further, I'd be interested to know what exactly you think it "leave one wondering". What do these normal, every day events leave you wondering?

Also, consider for a moment why it leaves you wondering whatever it leaves you to wonder. To me (and not putting words in your mouth just describing my experience; I'd like to hear yours) when someone says to me, "It makes you wonder" they're telling me that they see some significance in whatever the event or events are. When, really, it's our lizard brains perceiving groupings and patterns, which is a normal function. *There's a physicist and commentator named Robert Park who uses the term "Texas sharpshooter fallacy" to describe the perception of groupings as significant and/or meaningful, and everything that falls outside of support for that pattern simply not being taken into account. Statisticians describe it "like firing all your bullets into the side of a barn and then walking over to the bullet-riddled wall and drawing a bull's eye where it looks best". *

[*Reference: Caveman Logic by Hank Davis Prometheus Books Copyright 2009 pg 97]

 

[alt]

Yes, because that's what those events are called.



Define a reasonable frequency expectation is for such events. Once a month? Twice? Once a year? What are the parametres for those expectations?



If you read what's already been written, what makes you say that that event is highly unlikely? Coincidences happen all the time and with great frequency. I'd surmise, then, that they're very likely.

And, then, further, I'd be interested to know what exactly you think it "leave one wondering". What do these normal, every day events leave you wondering?

Also, consider for a moment why it leaves you wondering whatever it leaves you to wonder. To me (and not putting words in your mouth just describing my experience; I'd like to hear yours) when someone says to me, "It makes you wonder" they're telling me that they see some significance in whatever the event or events are. When, really, it's our lizard brains perceiving groupings and patterns, which is a normal function. *There's a physicist and commentator named Robert Park who uses the term "Texas sharpshooter fallacy" to describe the perception of groupings as significant and/or meaningful, and everything that falls outside of support for that pattern simply not being taken into account. Statisticians describe it "like firing all your bullets into the side of a barn and then walking over to the bullet-riddled wall and drawing a bull's eye where it looks best". *

[*Reference: Caveman Logic by Hank Davis Prometheus Books Copyright 2009 pg 97]

Hi Georgia - thanks for the reply.

Lets assume that different incidents occur at a frequency of, say, once a week, and that such incidents probability is calculated at, say, 1M to one (as to how such probability might be calculated, I have no idea, but we have to have something to work with).

That would then leave me wondering whether there was a more subtle means of perception that enabled one on those occassions, to, ummm .. involuntarily, glimpse a much broader 'present moment' than one would normally.

PS - I can't seem to get the multi quote function to work on this forum. I click on it but nothing happens. Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong ? Thanks.

 

[GeorginaS]

Hi Georgia - thanks for the reply.

Lets assume that different incidents occur at a frequency of, say, once a week, and that such incidents probability is calculated at, say, 1M to one (as to how such probability might be calculated, I have no idea, but we have to have something to work with).

That would then leave me wondering whether there was a more subtle means of perception that enabled one on those occassions, to, ummm .. involuntarily, glimpse a much broader 'present moment' than one would normally.

PS - I can't seem to get the multi quote function to work on this forum. I click on it but nothing happens. Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong ? Thanks.

Last thing first, here's a thread that gives really good instructions about how the multi-quote function works

https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=388346"

Can you flesh out your idea about involuntarily, glimpse a much broader 'present moment' than one would normally. I'm not quite getting what you mean.

And I think I need to ask you again -- given the normalcy and pedestrian nature of coincidences -- what would you consider an "unusual rate" of their occurrences?

 

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Last thing first, here's a thread that gives really good instructions about how the multi-quote function works

https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=388346"

Can you flesh out your idea about involuntarily, glimpse a much broader 'present moment' than one would normally. I'm not quite getting what you mean.

And I think I need to ask you again -- given the normalcy and pedestrian nature of coincidences -- what would you consider an "unusual rate" of their occurrences?

Present moment;
Consider a fly. It's present moment would be much shorter than a humans - I'm speaking from the point of view of perception, not actual time. It might experience one second of time, the way I might experience 10 seconds, or a minute, even. I would view it's furious flight as a blur - it would view it's own as normal. OTOH, It would view me as a mass of slow moving substance that it could run rings around. For practical purposes, therefore, it's present, is much smaller and sharper than mine.

Yet if it could 'plug into' my mentality, it would get a far broader perspective of the world around it, albeit a much slower moving one. Things that it would have hitherto come across as succesive instants by way of it's own perception, it could now witness in one instant, as I would.

By extention, I toy with the idea (toy being the operative word here) that occasionally and involuntarily, a human might attach to a higher present moment - perhaps even has a dormant or vestigial ability to do so.

I'd like to answer the second part of your post more fully, but I'm not sure what you're getting at. Each unlikey event could be presumably, be given a probability factor. If an event has a probability of, say, one in a hundred, and such an event (or similar events) were occurring, say 10 in a hundred, then that would be interesting.

Georgia - this is idle thought experiment on my part. I'm not really trying to convince anyone of anything, nor create a new creed or somthin'

Cheers.

PS, thanks for the multi post link. I'll be checking ot out.

 

[Ivan Seeking]

That is a coincidence.

Prove it. Show that this only happens as often as we would expect.

 

[jreelawg]

One day while I was in College, I woke up in the morning and started my one mile walk to school for an early morning critical thinking class. A ten dollar bill blew onto the sidewalk right it front of me. I picked it up, and on the way, I put it on the ledge where the kids in the elementary school hang out after school waiting for their parents.

Then in beginning of my class, the teacher asked us what we would do if we bought something at the store, and they gave us $10.00 extra in change.

I don't know how strange of a coincidence it really was, but at the time I thought it was kind of mysterious.

 

[Mu naught]

One day while I was in College, I woke up in the morning and started my one mile walk to school for an early morning critical thinking class. A ten dollar bill blew onto the sidewalk right it front of me. I picked it up, and on the way, I put it on the ledge where the kids in the elementary school hang out after school waiting for their parents.

Then in beginning of my class, the teacher asked us what we would do if we bought something at the store, and they gave us $10.00 extra in change.

I don't know how strange of a coincidence it really was, but at the time I thought it was kind of mysterious.

What does that question have to do with critical thinking? I'd keep that 10 dollars by the way unless it was a small mom and pop store.